I was ghosted at 54. Here's why I choose to think of it as empowering
Briefly

After decades of meaningful relationships but years of being single, the author found unexpected companionship during a trip back home. Despite the challenges of the pandemic and previous dating disappointments, a chance encounter with a former classmate led to a rekindled connection characterized by effortless, supportive interactions. Though he faced personal struggles, his kindness and ambition sparked a renewed sense of romance and friendship, highlighting the importance of genuine human connection in life's later years.
What was supposed to be a quick coffee ended up being a full pancake breakfast on a weekday morning where he listened, gave advice and boosted her confidence.
I was surprised at how effortless it was. I was attracted to his intense ambition and grit - but mostly his compassion.
He had experienced a tremendous amount of loss in the previous few years. Once, he told me he was completely alone in the world - not lonely, but alone.
Despite his punishing work schedule, he took time to meet with my best friend's daughter, who was in her early 20s, struggling to find a job.
Read at www.theguardian.com
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