The article discusses how entitlement within relationships can undermine appreciation for partners' contributions. It highlights the detrimental effects of scorekeeping and unmet expectations, which can breed resentment over time. To combat entitlement, it suggests focusing on appreciation instead. The author outlines four strategies to enhance appreciation: providing positive feedback, discussing personal backgrounds regarding chores, acknowledging differences in how tasks are executed, and considering hiring help. These approaches encourage partners to recognize and value each other's efforts, thereby nurturing a more supportive and fulfilling relationship.
We may assume partners are obligated to perform nice tasks; this entitled mentality is harmful as it fosters an expectation rather than appreciation.
Scorekeeping in relationships can lead to resentment; it's crucial to overcome this by voiding old expectations and replacing them with gratitude.
Four strategies for appreciation are positive feedback, discussing chore backgrounds, recognizing different methods, and considering external help to foster a supportive environment.
Positive feedback starts with recognizing the small and large gestures done by a partner, ensuring appreciation becomes a core part of the relationship.
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