"The second time we had sex, he brought up my pubes and my very wispy underarm fuzz, definitely in a not-thrilled way (he asked if this was just a "winter thing"), and it's had me in my head ever since. He hasn't gone down on me, and honestly, I'm pretty neutral on oral for myself in the first place, but my pubic hair as it is now doesn't seem to make oral especially difficult."
"I get that people have preferences, and most people find some trimming and maintenance to be courteous, but I've already done that. I'm leaning toward not seeing him again, but I'm also wondering if his reaction is really as weird as I'm making it in my head."
A person who has undergone laser hair removal and maintains minimal body hair through light trimming encounters a casual partner who criticizes their pubic hair and underarm fuzz, framing it as a visual and sensory preference. The person has already invested in hair removal procedures and finds their current grooming sufficient. They question whether the partner's critical commentary is inappropriate given their limited sexual history together and the fact that the person has no strong preferences about their partners' bodies. The person is reconsidering continuing the relationship based on this interaction and seeks perspective on whether the partner's behavior is genuinely problematic or an overreaction.
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