"The introduction of a vibrator often leads to a loss of connection for me, as I feel unable to provide the same level of pleasure with my hands or mouth afterward."
"I care deeply about my partners' pleasure, but I also want to feel satisfied and like I've truly topped them during our encounters."
A person with two partners struggles with the use of vibrators during sex. They find that vibrators make sex boring and hinder their ability to provide pleasure. The individual feels that once a vibrator is introduced, they cannot return to manual stimulation, as the vibrator often overstimulates their partners. They express concern about their effectiveness as a top and seek advice on balancing their partners' pleasure with their own satisfaction during sexual encounters.
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