The moment I knew: I told him my life was too messed up for a relationship, and he said I'll wait'
Briefly

The article narrates the author's journey into internet dating, starting from a point of emotional turmoil. Looking for companionship, the author set high standards for any potential partner, emphasizing the importance of mutual respect and value in a relationship. The narrative turns towards an unexpected romantic connection with Chris, despite initial contrasts in beliefs, particularly regarding religion. Their shared passion for language and literature sparked an instant attraction, shedding light on how love can bloom unexpectedly amidst personal struggles and preconceived notions about dating.
I was at the lowest point of my life, depressed and anxious, and doing weekly therapy to exorcise the demons of my past.
I decided I would only accept love from someone who genuinely thought my needs, opinions, ambitions, and time were as valuable as theirs.
Good writing is like porn to me. Our first date progressed in the usual way, discussing prepositions and past participles.
I had deliberately filtered my internet dating search to only return profiles of people who were atheist or agnostic.
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