This is how we do it: I only have months to live but sex makes all my despair fall away'
Briefly

The article explores the author's poignant reflections on life and intimacy following a terminal cancer diagnosis. Despite facing a limited time left, he finds profound joy and connection with his wife, Anna, especially through physical intimacy, which serves as a refuge from his grim reality. He describes feelings of normalcy when engaging in sex, which has become more important than before his illness. The couple's bond strengthens through shared experiences, while simple activities, like jigsaw puzzles, provide temporary distraction from his diagnosis. Anna's unwavering positivity and admiration help restore the author’s sense of self, making every moment together cherishable.
We are having sex every couple of days now, which is more than before I got ill, and it feels amazing to be close to one another.
Read at www.theguardian.com
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