In 2024, Orrin Onken transformed his retirement experience by taking charge of his social life, previously managed by his wife. He invited male acquaintances over for lunch to combat loneliness amidst fears of rejection. Despite some declines, the initiative helped him form new friendships and confront insecurities, proving that old stereotypes about aging men’s social lives are challenged when individuals step out of their comfort zones. The efforts ultimately led to a renewed sense of courage and connection in his post-retirement life.
I realized my work friends were just that. Once I stopped working, they ceased to be around. Should my wife predecease me, I imagined I'd die alone in an untidy apartment.
Making friends meant risking rejection. The first and most difficult step was sending out the invitations. Every extended invite posed the risk of rejection.
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