Discovery of children’s abuse led to profound sorrow. Memories of joyous moments became shadowed by trauma. As the children’s stories were revealed, a protective maternal presence provided reassurance. Over time, they healed, growing into a joyful childhood free from shame. Many parents face similar challenges in supporting healing while dealing with personal devastation. Communities often lack awareness of the silent battles parents face. The importance of shared experiences in healing and community support is emphasized, especially for women navigating similar traumas.
The moment I discovered both of my children had been sexually abused by our babysitter's partner, I was hollowed out by the greatest sorrow I'd ever known.
Years later, they carry no shame and their childhood brims with joy. I am one parent among countless parents affected by child sexual abuse.
For so many other kinds of traumas and sorrows we have a shared language, grief and ritual. We know secrets are corrosive, that healing deepens when we share our experience with others.
I was lucky to have the love of close friends, family and professional support, but most people in my world had no idea and still have no idea of our family's quiet devastation.
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