About that Exhausted Narcissist
Briefly

The article explores a humorous interaction with an individual demonstrating narcissistic tendencies, who requests less engagement on social media. The author responds by questioning their desire to disconnect, highlighting the irony of wanting connection without actual participation. They interpret this behavior as a 'cry for help' and choose to continue engaging, believing that the person is uncomfortable with true mutual connection. By sending light messages, the author aims to remind them that connection requires presence, challenging their performative distance.
"This is social media. We have a mutually agreed connection. Do you want to change that? We could always not be connected."
"They want to stay linked while pretending to be above it all. They want the symbolic value of connection without the inconvenience of actual interaction."
Read at Portland Mercury
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