"Pam Parris of Orlando, Fla., says becoming a grandma turned her world "upside down" in the "most positive way [she] could ever imagine." When her first grandchild was born, she was 39, and she was experiencing an "unexpected, devastating divorce." "She gave me purpose and the desire to start a whole new life," Parris said. Now 69 years old, Parris reminds new grandparents that their children will have "certain ways of doing things that might not be the way you would do them." She adds that it's best "not to interfere and constantly make recommendations.""
"'These babies have found a piece of my heart that was hurting and healed it,' she said. Dorton, who is from Concord, N.C., says she was 'young and inexperienced' when she first became a parent. 'I did my absolute best, but I know how I could have done better.' Postpartum depression made the first months of her daughter's birth 'hard and scary,' said Dorton. 'It was tough to be the mom I really wanted to be.'"
The Sunday after Labor Day is dedicated to honoring grandparents. In 1978, President Jimmy Carter signed a proclamation recognizing the first National Grandparents Day. Grandparents describe the role as life-changing, offering purpose, emotional healing and renewed connection. Many emphasize using prior parenting experience to support adult children, especially during difficult periods like postpartum depression. Advice centers on providing presence, practical help and gentle guidance while avoiding constant interference or unsolicited recommendations. The role commonly brings joy and meaning while requiring respect for the distinct parenting choices of the next generation.
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