The article discusses navigating a challenging parent-child relationship when significant political differences exist. The author, a leftist living in a liberal city, has a right-wing mother back in their hometown. They manage their limited interactions by avoiding political discussions and calling out intolerant remarks when necessary. However, upon revealing their genderfluid identity, the mother expressed discomfort with the author’s social media posts supporting gender diversity. This situation complicates their relationship further, as the author grapples with being true to their identity while trying to maintain peace with their politically conservative mother.
"I follow the common advice about keeping politics out of discussions... but my mom insists on bringing up her politics. I change the subject or give little back."
"I call her out when she says something homophobic or racist, but otherwise don’t talk about politics. I don’t think trying to change her would help our relationship."
#family-dynamics #gender-identity #political-differences #relationship-advice #communication-strategies
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