I lost 20 pounds unexpectedly. I wish people would stop telling me I look great.
Briefly

The article discusses the author's personal journey surrounding weight loss, initially driven by societal pressures and chronic illness. Post-diagnosis, she experiences a significant weight loss due to health complications, which paradoxically leads to fears rather than satisfaction. Despite receiving compliments about her appearance, she reflects on how unhealthy circumstances should not be tied to positive body image. Her experiences underline the pressures of societal ideals on body size, particularly influenced by a critical upbringing that conflated worth with appearance, ultimately prompting a reevaluation of self-acceptance and support mechanisms.
When I got sick, I lost 20 pounds quickly and without effort, leading me to realize that the compliments on my weight loss were misplaced.
Growing up in a strict culture with body image issues, I learned to associate my worth with my body size, which is fundamentally the wrong approach.
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