The article addresses an ethical dilemma regarding the use of soda water from self-service machines at restaurants. The reader believes they can fill their cup for free as soda isn't explicitly on the menu, while their partner accuses them of stealing. Miss Manners advises the reader to clarify with each establishment whether they allow free soda water instead of relying on assumptions, thus promoting clear communication to avoid misunderstandings. Additionally, the importance of not being labeled a thief in front of others is emphasized in navigating social norms about dining etiquette.
Miss Manners suggests that the question about the soda water's availability should be clarified with each restaurant to ensure adherence to their policies.
Readers should determine if they can get soda water for free by explicitly asking establishments instead of assuming it is complimentary.
The reader's partner's remarks about stealing may be unfounded if soda water isn't listed as a purchasable item, but it's wise to confirm with establishments.
In navigating social dilemmas, Miss Manners emphasizes the importance of direct communication with service providers to prevent misunderstandings about what's offered.
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