The article discusses a woman's experience with intrusive questions about her breast augmentation during intimate moments. She finds such inquiries to be offensive and body-shaming, feeling they imply disapproval of her choices. Miss Manners advises that anyone who expresses such judgment is not worth her time. Additionally, the article touches on social etiquette for older adults who prefer to leave parties early, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a party’s spirit by avoiding early departures.
"You are right to find a rude, judgmental and insensitive query like this offensive, especially from someone you are supposed to feel comfortable with as a partner."
"If a potential suitor feels entitled to criticize your personal choices so quickly and without invitation, they are not suitable partners for you."
"It is important to convey that you find the question hurtful, but also reassuring to know that such comments reflect poorly on the questioner, not on you."
"Leaving a party without saying goodbye can seem inconsiderate, but it is thoughtful when you want to avoid prompting others to leave prematurely."
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