You didn't say that you are in ill health. You could live another 15 or 20 years and, if you do, your daughter could have wised up and chosen a more suitable partner by then. I do think your idea of creating a trust for her is a good one. However, I see no reason why you should discuss that plan with her now. If you feel the need to explain, do it in a letter to be given to her at the time of your demise.
The response I got from my husband was, 'I'm not responsible for your feelings.' Well, it sure felt like a conversation killer. I am not sure where to go from here.
I have been in counseling, and before separating we tried joint counseling a couple of times. There was an issue I needed to bring up with Grant. When I did, I used the 'I feel when' phrasing that I had practiced with my psychologist.
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