She may just have self-consciousness that she could theoretically conquer with enough affirmation from you, but she may also want to avoid oral sex as a response to trauma.
Tell her that you actually love both and are actively looking forward to tasting and smelling her. All you can do is make that clear.
How to get the passion back is a big question in a long-term relationship, requiring open communication, understanding, and acceptance of each other's boundaries and desires.
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