This is how we do it: I definitely want sex more often than she does, but I don't mind waiting'
Briefly

John wooed me at work with a grand gesture that embarrassed me but impressed me. His boldness was sexy yet revealed his nervousness. That defined our first connection.
Initially the sex was spontaneous and frequent, but after three years, I'm less driven by desire. The intensity has faded, but love and safety have taken its place.
The age gap initially concerned me, but John's calmness and maturity reassured me. Despite being the older partner, I sometimes find him teaching me in our sexual dynamic.
Living with my dad while saving for our own place might contribute to my decreased sexual desire. The constant proximity may have dulled initial excitement.
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