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Social media marketing
fromSilicon Canals
15 hours ago

Psychology says the people who look the wealthiest on Instagram often aren't the ones with money, they're the ones who got trapped in a performance they can't figure out how to stop without admitting who they've quietly become - Silicon Canals

Instagram serves as a stage for performance rather than a window into real lives, often trapping users in a cycle of impression management.
Parenting
fromwww.npr.org
14 hours ago

Family influencers make the lifestyle look good. But kids pay the price, new book says

Family influencer content often masks deeper dynamics and motivations behind seemingly innocent announcements.
Television
fromwww.theguardian.com
19 hours ago

TikTok, an AI sitcom and clowns: how Hacks and The Comeback nail the humiliations of modern celebrity

Deborah Vance aims for a comeback at Madison Square Garden while navigating the challenges of fame and legacy in the final season of Hacks.
NYC LGBT
fromJezebel
1 day ago

The Devil Has Good Taste...

Sydney Sweeney's cameo in The Devil Wears Prada 2 was cut due to a creative decision, despite her being a buzzworthy actress.
UX design
fromMedium
4 days ago

Are we makers by nature-or consumers by design?

The relationship between creation and consumption is strained, impacting designers' creativity and cognitive processes.
Arts
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 week ago

Art, sex, nature: why is everything sold to us as a means to an end, rather than an end in itself?

Art should be valued for its own sake, not merely for its utilitarian benefits or health claims.
fromApaonline
2 weeks ago

How to Deal with Online Virtue Signaling

Virtue signaling often manifests in social media posts that aim to elevate one's moral standing without genuine commitment to the cause, leading to frustration among observers.
Philosophy
#social-media
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago
Digital life

If you post these 7 things on social media, you're telling the world more about your insecurity than your life - Silicon Canals

Media industry
fromNatesilver
2 weeks ago

Social media is turning into a freak show

Social media's influence on content quality and publisher success has led to a crisis in foreign policy and political communication.
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago
Digital life

If you post these 7 things on social media, you're telling the world more about your insecurity than your life - Silicon Canals

Careers
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

8 status symbols that used to mean success but now just signal insecurity - Silicon Canals

Status symbols have shifted from markers of success to indicators of insecurity and financial struggle.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

There's a specific exhaustion that belongs to people who spent decades being exactly what everyone needed them to be - and then one day realized they couldn't remember what they needed - Silicon Canals

People-pleasing leads to losing one's identity and can result in profound exhaustion and disconnection from self.
#hype-aversion
#reality-tv
Television
fromIntelligencer
4 weeks ago

The True Religion of Reality Television

Abuse in reality shows often intertwines with religion, creating a troubling spectacle that raises ethical concerns.
Television
fromIntelligencer
4 weeks ago

The True Religion of Reality Television

Abuse in reality shows often intertwines with religion, creating a troubling spectacle that raises ethical concerns.
#beauty-standards
fromIndependent
3 weeks ago
Television

How we ALL bought into looksmaxxing: There's nothing new about the extreme pursuit of physical perfection - just ask the contestants of The Swan

fromIndependent
3 weeks ago
Television

How we ALL bought into looksmaxxing: There's nothing new about the extreme pursuit of physical perfection - just ask the contestants of The Swan

fromThe Cut
3 weeks ago

Brand Names Are in Crisis

"Any time you have to explain your name, you're essentially apologizing for it," says Alexandra Watkins, the founder of naming firm Eat My Words. Her deal-breakers for names include 'looks like a typo' and 'hard to pronounce.'
Marketing
Writing
fromBustle
3 weeks ago

On TikTok, People Are Using Their Names To Manifest

Acrostic poems can serve as effective affirmations, helping to organize goals and create positive feelings through personal connection.
Women in technology
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

What Makeup Really Says About You (and What It Doesn't)

Makeup trends on social media suggest personality insights, but research shows these links are minimal and largely influenced by observers rather than wearers.
Madrid food
fromenglish.elpais.com
1 month ago

Sold out' as a fictional story: How the music industry learned to sell success even when it didn't exist

Sold-out signs in Spain's live music industry function as marketing tools rather than accurate capacity indicators, with venues using modular configurations and guest lists to artificially create sold-out narratives that legitimize events regardless of actual financial performance.
Media industry
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

How Long Is 15 Minutes of Fame, Really?

Celebrity fame is temporary and transient, unlike hereditary royalty, with most stars eventually fading into obscurity despite efforts to maintain relevance.
Digital life
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

Awareing Ourselves to Death

World Monitor aggregates over 100 real-time data streams into a dashboard resembling a situation room, presenting global information overload as intelligence without clear actionable purpose.
Marketing
fromThe New Yorker
1 month ago

In the Age of A.I., What Is Taste? And Do We Still Have It?

Silicon Valley has adopted 'taste' as a critical competitive advantage in the AI era, positioning it as the ability to discern profitable products and create unreplicable market advantages.
fromPinkNews | Latest lesbian, gay, bi and trans news | LGBTQ+ news
1 month ago

'Very demure, very mindful' trans TikTok star says viral fame 'ruined her life'

It was the highlight of my life and everyone loved it. It also was the worst time of my life ever. It was the worst of times, b****. The entertainment industry led me to substance abuse and alcoholism and my life falling apart. I got chewed up and spit out by Hollywood, girl.
Social media marketing
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

My Friend Is Getting TikTok Famous Using My Trauma And I'm Not Sure What To Do

An advice column addresses relationship and personal challenges, including household labor expectations, coming out to religious parents, and friend exploitation of trauma.
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

The Cynical, Gullible American Man

Americans are also facing a bizarre epidemic of gullibility and cynicism-gullicism, if you need a portmanteau-that is drawing people into a world of conspiracism and falsehoods, one where facts are drowned out by a cacophony of extremely loud and wrong voices. Reliable information is both more available and harder to find than ever.
Public health
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

Becoming Beloved: Case Studies in Popularity

Popular people possess the ability to see possibilities everywhere, recognizing potential in situations and others that less popular individuals overlook.
Social media marketing
fromFast Company
1 month ago

'Eating disorders start on TikTok': Ad campaign takes social media to task in the most subversive way

Just Treatment, a UK health justice group, created guerrilla ads mimicking Meta's branding to highlight social media's mental health impact on teens and advocate for improved youth mental health care.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

Infinite Icon: A Visual Memoir review Paris Hilton's act of self-love shows there's nothing behind the mask

Paris Hilton here presents us with an unbearable act of docu-self-love, avowedly a behind-the-scenes study of her second studio album, Infinite Icon, and where she's at as a musician, survivor and mom. But maybe there is, in fact, nothing behind the scenes; judging by this, the scenes are all there is: Insta-exhibitionism, empty phrases and show. Hilton's second album no doubt has its admirers and detractors, and her fans are perfectly happy with it.
Film
fromThe Atlantic
2 months ago

The Internet's Nihilism Crisis

Recently, the culprit has often been the federal government. The Department of Homeland Security is putting out white-nationalist dog whistles on X. President Trump posted a video depicting Barack and Michelle Obama as apes. The subtext of every egregious shitpost from the administration is the same: These people are in charge now, and the old rules don't matter. A great deal of what I find myself scrolling past exudes a threatening, almost anarchical aura.
US politics
fromThe Conversation
1 month ago

Today's obsession with authenticity isn't new - being true to yourself has troubled philosophers for centuries

All of us live in an age where we're bombarded by social media and artificial intelligence - when striving to be your authentic self becomes an increasingly difficult task. Yet, even if it has somehow become a common goal, it is unclear how many of us can truly define the "authenticity" that we say we are pursuing.
Philosophy
Right-wing politics
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

There is no shame in being vain': the relentless rise of impossible male beauty standards

Male political and cultural figures increasingly perform militaristic authority through carefully curated facial presentation and appearance, while men's faces face unprecedented public scrutiny previously reserved for women.
Miscellaneous
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Authenticity Myth

Authenticity and intentional personal change are compatible; accepting current patterns while working to shift unhelpful traits enables genuine growth without self-rejection.
Music
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Experience: my record company replaced me with an impostor'

Debbie Deb's breakthrough in 1984 freestyle music came through a chance meeting with producer Pretty Tony, resulting in hit singles despite being hired as an artist-for-hire with minimal compensation while a different performer represented her publicly.
fromVulture
2 months ago

A Grand Theory of Celebrity and Who-dom

And by "Who-dom," I don't mean the Seussian variety but the taxonomy coined by 's Lindsey Weber and Bobby Finger: the vast, sub-stratospheric tier of celebrity occupied by figures whose fame is intensely meaningful to some and virtually nonexistent to everyone else. Whos are defined in opposition to Thems, the indisputable celebrities known to most except those living under a rock or who willingly reject the very notion of pop culture,
Books
Relationships
fromHuffPost
2 months ago

This Hate-Fueled Dating Trend Isn't As Bad As It Sounds

People form relationships by bonding over shared dislikes and petty grievances, making mutual negativity a new metric of compatibility.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

What Is Filter Dysmorphia, and Why Is It Alarming?

Filter dysmorphia occurs when digitally edited facial images feel more familiar than one's real face, altering self-perception, self-worth, and collective standards of appearance.
fromHer Campus
1 month ago

Is Social Media Creating Micro-Celebrities?

The rise of TikTok and YouTube has dramatically changed the lives of content creators by turning social media into a legitimate career path rather than just a hobby. These platforms allow ordinary people to build massive audiences without traditional media connections, often through algorithm-driven exposure.
Social media marketing
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My 7-Year-Old's Latest Obsession Is Uh, Very Adult. I Definitely Didn't Teach Her That.

A 7-year-old displays adolescent appearance-focused behaviors and attention-seeking performance despite limited screen time, raising parental concern about underlying insecurity and behavioral issues.
Music
fromwww.bbc.com
2 months ago

Cosmetic surgeon sorry for picking apart singer Troye Sivan's looks on TikTok

A cosmetic surgeon critiqued Troye Sivan's appearance in a video, apologised after backlash, deleted the clip, and intends to keep posting with a more positive focus.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

Everyone's a "narcissist" now: how diagnosis culture took over the internet - Silicon Canals

Therapy terms have become everyday social-media labels, causing oversimplification and a mismatch between popular certainty and empirical research.
Books
fromSlate Magazine
2 months ago

Are We Just Recycling Old Stories, Ideas, and Styles?

21st-century culture is abundant and accessible but suffers an innovation deficit, leaving a "blank space" where original cultural creation should emerge.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Modern Culture Gave Us Everything-But We Still Feel Alone

We've always known we need each other-not just as partners, not just as parents and children, not just as friends who meet for coffee on a Tuesday, but as a community. We long to belong to a community of people where our names are known, our struggles are witnessed, and our absence is felt. Something in us has always understood this, even if we've lost the words for it; even if the culture around us has spent the last century insisting we're better off managing on our own.
Mental health
Television
fromenglish.elpais.com
1 month ago

What is competency porn, the trend that consists of watching people do things well?

Competency porn—entertainment featuring skilled professionals efficiently planning and executing tasks—has become a significant viewing trend, exemplified by shows like The Pitt and The Bear.
Marketing
fromThe Drum
2 months ago

Does the future of advertising have to be dystopian?

Advertising's pursuit of personalization risks pervasive, dystopian consumer manipulation, but alternative, less invasive futures remain possible.
Television
fromenglish.elpais.com
1 month ago

It's a trompe-l'il, it can't even turn you on': Have on-screen bodies become too unrealistic?

Despite increased sexual content in film and television, critics argue these portrayals lack genuine eroticism due to idealized bodies and choreographed encounters, potentially causing audience fatigue.
Television
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Reality bites: why the wildest TV shows of the 2000s are haunting us now

Reality television from the 2000s is being retrospectively criticized for monetizing humiliation, with shows like The Biggest Loser, To Catch a Predator, and America's Next Top Model now examined for their exploitative practices and cruelty.
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