#identity-and-decision-making

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fromSilicon Canals
8 hours ago

I asked eight people who stayed in unhappy marriages for decades why they didn't leave and not one of them said the children, the money, or the fear - every single one described the same internal calculation, and it wasn't about staying. It was about what leaving would confirm about a decision they'd already spent years defending. - Silicon Canals

People remain in unhappy marriages primarily to avoid admitting they made a mistake, not due to practical constraints like finances or children.
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