The article addresses a couple's disagreement about how to handle wedding invitations, emphasizing the importance of adhering to etiquette principles regardless of the couple's sexual orientation. One partner believes the names of guests should be clearly stated on invitations to foster a welcoming atmosphere, challenging the notion that gay weddings can disregard traditional customs. Miss Manners affirms that all guests deserve respect and that while plus-ones can be discretionary for singles, clear communication and consideration are fundamental to hosting.
"You are contemplating marrying someone who says that manners don't apply to gay couples? And not just superficial bridal customs... the underlying principle of consideration for others?"
"The courtesy of using the names of all prospective guests, rather than treating them as anonymous add-ons, should not be [optional]."
"Allowing singles to invite their own guests is optional; however, established couples must be invited together."
"...the most important role as hosts is to make all of our guests feel welcomed and comfortable, which includes putting all names on an invitation."
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