A person feels betrayed after their ex-wife, who identified as a lesbian, engages in threesomes with a man after their marriage ended. This situation raises concerns about potential deception in her declaration of being a lesbian. Various explanations are considered, including possible confusion about her sexual orientation or the labels she chooses to identify with. The complexity of sexual identity is highlighted, questioning whether she had unresolved attractions to men when disclosing her sexuality.
Your ex-wife may have deceived you. Maybe when she told you she was a lesbian, she had lingering doubt or even full knowledge that she still had sexual attraction to men.
Maybe she thought it would be too complicated to explain this, that other present issues with your relationship were too much to get into so that 'I'm gay' was the most efficient explanation.
There are many other potential explanations. Maybe your ex-wife realized that she is homoromantic but bisexual.
Maybe she doesn't subscribe to these labels at all and is just feeling her way through her identity.
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