The article shares a personal narrative about the significance of the author's unique name, Nishtha, and the struggles faced with its mispronunciation throughout childhood. Growing up in various cities and schools, the author frequently encountered different versions of their name, leading to feelings of confusion and a desire to simplify it for others. While adopting simpler names felt easier in social situations, it also caused a sense of loss and identity erosion. Ultimately, the author emphasizes the importance of name recognition and asserting one's identity confidently.
I moved around a lot, seven schools, four cities over ten years, so I heard every possible version of my name.
I then started introducing myself with a version I knew they could say. Nisha was simple enough, so I used it at work.
If I was going to change my name for their convenience, I figured I might as well pick one I actually liked.
But every time I did that, I felt like I was making myself smaller.
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