SAVAGE LOVE: Quickies
Briefly

The article discusses several topics around sexual intimacy and communication, highlighting the importance of understanding and expressing desires. It notes that the clitoris can be found with attentive searching, and emphasizes that those who say 'do whatever you want' often expect their partner to decipher hidden wishes. It also touches on the challenges of sexual compatibility, suggesting that couples should experiment with different positions but prioritize comfort and mutual satisfaction, indicating that pleasure is possible through means beyond penetration.
I'm told the clitoris is not hard to find - go north, young man - but if one tries to find it and one fails, one should pull over (or pull out) and ask for directions.
People who say 'do whatever you want' don't mean it. What they mean is this: 'I'm too embarrassed to ask for what I want, so I want you to guess.' Never guess.
Most couples experiment with different positions before landing on a few that work for them - positions and angles of penetration that work best for their bodies during penetrative sex.
Two people can also enjoy each other (and get each other off) without having penetrative sex every time (or at all).
Read at Portland Mercury
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