The Things They Left Behind
Briefly

Choosing what to do with a deceased child's belongings is a deeply personal and painful process. Different parents experience varying feelings about their child's possessions. Some feel unable to throw anything away, while others find it comforting to keep items intact. Meanwhile, others prefer to remove belongings to avoid constant reminders of their loss. There are no specific rules or timelines for these decisions. It's important for parents to follow their feelings, acknowledging that this process is part of their grief work necessary for acceptance and healing.
Deciding what to do with your child's stuff is painful, in the same way it's painful to face all the things that scare you the most.
There are no rules or deadlines when it comes to this kind of thing, and my only advice is to follow your heart.
Read at Psychology Today
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