...the music director put out a general email asking people to not use cologne since others are allergic or sensitive. No result.
If her cologne's notes of sandalwood and bergamot are obstructing your high notes, it's a whole choir problem. You should kick it back up the org chart.
Tell the music director that, for health and performance reasons, you'll be unable to continue volunteering if the strong scents aren't addressed.
Coming from you, a direct request that the other choir member not wear her cologne could pull you into interpersonal drama.
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