Is Annoyance the Price We Pay for Community?
Briefly

The article discusses the author's reluctance to attend a party, providing insights into their social preferences. Initially considering various excuses to decline, they ultimately decide to attend. Overwhelmed by shallow interactions and forced small talk, the author reflects on their dissatisfaction with social obligations. They reveal their realization of not being inherently introverted but rather socially selective, craving deeper, meaningful connections with loved ones rather than superficial engagements.
For me, being socially selective means I am selecting for the quality, and not the quantity, of interactions I can have when spending time with my community.
I arrived at the party with a game plan: Get in and out in 60 minutes. I would say hi to the host and then grab a glass of Prosecco.
Read at time.com
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