Asking Eric: The party was in the yard, but this one guest wouldn't leave my house
Briefly

The article addresses a host's dilemma regarding a guest who prefers to stay indoors during outdoor gatherings, particularly during the Fourth of July event. It emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries as a host, suggesting that hosts can specify their event's location and dynamics. The writer advises informing the guest that the gathering will only be outside, reinforcing the idea that it's acceptable to prioritize the collective enjoyment of all guests. The response champions the notion that hospitality does not require catering to individual preferences that disrupt the overall experience.
As the host, you get to define where the party is and how the party works. This year, communicate that the party will only be outside.
If your guest prefers indoor comfort, let her know the gathering will be outside only. It releases the expectation of hosting her indoors.
Making your home available for comfort does not mean you need to cater to one guest’s preference inside while all others enjoy outside.
The point of the gathering is to enjoy each other's company, and as the host, you deserve to enjoy it as well.
Read at www.mercurynews.com
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