The author reflects on adopting their third child at the age of 47, unaware of the possibility of post-adoption depression. After a grueling travel experience to bring 5-month-old Isabella home, the author faced overwhelming exhaustion and sadness. Seeking support from a therapist and prioritizing self-care allowed them to bond with their new child, while encouragement from their caseworker provided reassurance. Over time, as routines resumed and connections formed, the author's emotional state improved, highlighting the importance of support during such transitions.
When I first came home with Isabella, I was exhausted. The first days with 5-month-old Isabella were a whirlwind of travel to the orphanage, government offices, and doctors.
After 72 hours without a shower, change of clothes, a good meal, or adult conversation, I arranged for a babysitter and met a friend at a diner.
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