Dancing can be daunting for many, especially for those who feel awkward or self-conscious. The author recounts their past experiences of feeling mortified while dancing, especially in social situations. They describe a transformative experience at a dance event held in the dark, where anonymity allowed them to unwind and fully enjoy the music. This setting provided a liberating environment to experiment with movement without external judgment. The piece emphasizes that engaging in such experiences can reignite the joy of dancing and foster confidence, even for those who feel constrained by their self-image.
"You’ll feel like a nincompoop for the first three songs but by the last one you’ll think, 'It's over already?!' and they always do."
"The darkness means nobody else is watching. That frees up a lot of people. You can try stuff or change your mind without having any effect on anyone."
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