To the Wounded Parent Who Wants to Do Everything Right - Tiny Buddha

"The main goal for parents with childhood trauma is simple: not to do to our children what was done to us. This intention drives the desire to heal and parent differently."

"Despite the commitment to be emotionally present and nurturing, parents often face a barrage of self-doubt, questioning if they are doing enough or too much for their children."

"Two core fears often emerge in this parenting journey: the fear of giving too much affection and the uncertainty of whether to intervene in their child's social situations."

Parents with childhood trauma often grapple with self-doubt while raising their children. They aim to avoid repeating past traumas and strive to be emotionally present. Despite intentions to provide love and support, questions arise about the adequacy of their parenting. Concerns include whether to intervene in their child's social interactions or to respect their need for space. Underlying these worries are fears about giving too much affection or not enough, leading to an exhausting quest for the right balance in parenting.

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