Help! I Think My Neighbor Is Up to Something Very Suspicious. Someone Needs to Warn His Wife.
Briefly

In addressing two separate queries, the advice emphasizes the importance of knowing boundaries in relationships. For the first question, regarding infidelity, the counselor suggests not interfering since the neighbor's marital arrangement is unknown. The second query involves whether to send a birthday card to an ex-boyfriend. The advisor recommends direct communication rather than a subtle gesture, advocating for openness in reconnecting rather than expecting the ex to respond to indirect cues. Both responses focus on respectful and clear communication in personal relationships.
Don't make an indirect effort to reconnect. Instead, knock, announce yourself, and see if he'll open it up for you.
You don't know what arrangement they might have. Unless you are close to her and can confirm their monogamy, it's none of your business.
Read at Slate Magazine
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