The article explores the phenomenon of 'limerence,' a deep emotional fixation characterized by obsessive thoughts and intense infatuation. Unlike a mere crush, limerence involves an unfulfilled longing and an overwhelming desire for emotional reciprocation, making it feel irrational and involuntary. Psychologist Dorothy Tennov defines limerence as intrusive in nature, invading one's consciousness against their will. The article contrasts limerence with situationships, highlighting that limerence often idealizes the idea of a person rather than engaging with the reality of the relationship.
"Almost everyone, at some point, has experienced a romantic crush. However, unlike a typical crush, limerence is defined by obsessive ruminations, deep infatuation and a strong desire for emotional reciprocation."
"According to Dorothy Tennov, limerence may feel like a very intense form of being in love that may also feel irrational and involuntary."
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