Dear Abby: My husband knows I'm triggered by clutter. Now he has started collecting.'
Briefly

Your husband's collection of items may seem normal to him, but your past experiences as a child of a hoarder shape your sensitivity to clutter. Hiring a professional organizer could help. You both need a practical solution that honors both of your perspectives on space, cleanliness, and emotional triggers.
As a grandmother, you offer consistent support and presence in your grandchildren's lives, which appears to be taken for granted. When their other grandparents provide any form of involvement, it is treated as a significant event, underscoring the importance of recognizing and appreciating consistent efforts within a family.
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