The author reflects on a strict upbringing characterized by discipline, largely influenced by his father's strict parenting style, which included physical punishment. While he doesn't resent his father for this, he is determined to break the cycle of discipline through communication with his own two sons. He shares fond memories alongside the less savory ones, illustrating a complex relationship shaped by love, respect, and the desire for improvement. His father's immigrant journey and dedication to family further influence how he wants to parent his own children, which diverges significantly from his father's methods.
My upbringing involved strict discipline that has shaped how I remember my dad. However, I focus on communication with my children rather than physical discipline.
I don't begrudge my dad for smacking me as a child; I understand it was what he knew. Yet, I aim for a different approach with my boys.
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