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NYC LGBT
fromQueerty
1 year ago

The Gay Internet wonders whether this 'Drag Race' queen can also be a "masc daddy" - Queerty

Sam Star blends masculine ruggedness with Drag Race glam, showcasing her love for football and a supportive relationship with NBA Hall of Famer Charles Barkley.
#fatherhood
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
11 hours ago

I'm 66 and I grew up in a house where my father worked sixty-hour weeks and never once told me he was proud of me - and I did the exact same thing to my sons before I realized the silence wasn't strength, it was a pattern I'd inherited like the color of my eyes - Silicon Canals

Emotional expression in father-son relationships can be deeply affected by generational patterns of communication.
Parenting
fromwww.bbc.com
3 weeks ago

Meet the dads learning how to style their daughters' hair

Dads are learning to do their daughters' hair to bond and alleviate pressure on mothers.
fromwww.esquire.com
4 months ago
Philosophy

Scott Galloway, Author, Podcaster, and Professor, on Talking About the Struggles of Young Men and the Speed of Life

Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
11 hours ago

I'm 66 and I grew up in a house where my father worked sixty-hour weeks and never once told me he was proud of me - and I did the exact same thing to my sons before I realized the silence wasn't strength, it was a pattern I'd inherited like the color of my eyes - Silicon Canals

Emotional expression in father-son relationships can be deeply affected by generational patterns of communication.
Parenting
fromwww.bbc.com
3 weeks ago

Meet the dads learning how to style their daughters' hair

Dads are learning to do their daughters' hair to bond and alleviate pressure on mothers.
fromwww.esquire.com
4 months ago
Philosophy

Scott Galloway, Author, Podcaster, and Professor, on Talking About the Struggles of Young Men and the Speed of Life

fromMail Online
12 hours ago

Men are threatened by female bosses because it makes them feel unmanly

Men feel their masculinity is threatened when they are told they are less assertive, dominant, or 'masculine' than others. They may also experience these reactions when they find themselves to be subordinate to a woman who clearly takes the lead or when they are expected to perform tasks considered 'unmanly.'
Women in technology
#emotional-health
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago
Relationships

I want to say something that my generation rarely says out loud: being tough your whole life doesn't actually protect you from loneliness - it just means you're better at hiding it from everyone, including yourself - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago
Relationships

Psychology suggests that men who were told "man up" as boys don't just suppress their emotions - they develop a pattern of harmful avoidance and it's misread as strength - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
Retirement

I'm 66 and I spent forty years trying to stay positive through everything - and what I actually created was a life where nobody knew me well enough to notice when I was drowning - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
Mental health

I grew up in the 1970s and the closest thing I had to therapy was my uncle telling me to 'walk it off' after I broke my collarbone - and that phrase became my entire emotional philosophy for the next fifty years - Silicon Canals

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

I want to say something that my generation rarely says out loud: being tough your whole life doesn't actually protect you from loneliness - it just means you're better at hiding it from everyone, including yourself - Silicon Canals

Being tough can lead to loneliness and isolation, as it prevents genuine connections and vulnerability.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

Psychology suggests that men who were told "man up" as boys don't just suppress their emotions - they develop a pattern of harmful avoidance and it's misread as strength - Silicon Canals

Emotional suppression in men leads to serious health risks and relationship issues, as societal norms discourage vulnerability and expression of feelings.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

I'm 66 and I spent forty years trying to stay positive through everything - and what I actually created was a life where nobody knew me well enough to notice when I was drowning - Silicon Canals

Staying positive can lead to hidden struggles and emotional isolation, as individuals often mask their true feelings to appear strong.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

I grew up in the 1970s and the closest thing I had to therapy was my uncle telling me to 'walk it off' after I broke my collarbone - and that phrase became my entire emotional philosophy for the next fifty years - Silicon Canals

Some emotional wounds cannot be healed by simply ignoring them; they require acknowledgment and processing.
#emotional-suppression
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago
Mental health

Most men who grew up in the 1960s and 70s were taught that admitting you needed help was a character flaw. Finally, we are discovering that openness has its own kind of strength. - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago
Relationships

Psychology explains people who grew up in the 1960s aren't just private - they struggle to open up from being raised in an era when family problems stayed behind closed doors - Silicon Canals

Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

Most men who grew up in the 1960s and 70s were taught that admitting you needed help was a character flaw. Finally, we are discovering that openness has its own kind of strength. - Silicon Canals

Men are taught to suppress emotions, leading to loneliness and health issues.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

Psychology explains people who grew up in the 1960s aren't just private - they struggle to open up from being raised in an era when family problems stayed behind closed doors - Silicon Canals

Generational emotional suppression in men stems from cultural norms that discourage expressing feelings, leading to difficulties in emotional communication.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

There's a generation of men who express love exclusively through logistics - the tire is changed, the bill is paid, the shelf is fixed - and there's a generation of their partners who spent decades wondering why the logistics never felt like enough and the answer is that service without presence is maintenance not intimacy - Silicon Canals

Men often express love through actions rather than emotional connection, leading to feelings of loneliness in relationships.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

My father taught me how to change a tire, how to check the oil, how to patch a hole in drywall, and how to fix a running toilet - and he never once taught me how to say I love you or how to hold someone when they cry or how to admit I was scared, and I've spent my whole adult life as a man who can fix every single thing in the house except the silence sitting in the middle of it - Silicon Canals

Emotional absence can be a legacy inherited from fathers who prioritize practical skills over vulnerability and emotional expression.
#mental-health
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

I grew up in a family where asking for help was the same as admitting weakness - and now I'm 66 and sitting alone with problems I don't know how to solve because I never learned how to say "I'm struggling" - Silicon Canals

Asking for help is often perceived as a weakness, rooted in deep-seated beliefs about masculinity and self-reliance.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

The manosphere is dead and no one cares about Andrew Tate any more': the poet taking on toxic masculinity

Sam Browne uses performance poetry to address mental health and masculinity, aiming to change perceptions and support men in their struggles.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 days ago

I grew up in a family where asking for help was the same as admitting weakness - and now I'm 66 and sitting alone with problems I don't know how to solve because I never learned how to say "I'm struggling" - Silicon Canals

Asking for help is often perceived as a weakness, rooted in deep-seated beliefs about masculinity and self-reliance.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

The manosphere is dead and no one cares about Andrew Tate any more': the poet taking on toxic masculinity

Sam Browne uses performance poetry to address mental health and masculinity, aiming to change perceptions and support men in their struggles.
World politics
fromwww.theguardian.com
5 days ago

Hungary's strongman lost. His ideas live on in the White House | Jamil Smith

True strength is characterized by empathy, restraint, and the ability to apologize, not by domination or cruelty.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
5 days ago

Psychology says people who describe themselves as self-sufficient aren't always describing a strength. Sometimes they're describing the scar tissue that formed where the need for other people used to be, and they've carried it so long they genuinely mistake the numbness for peace. - Silicon Canals

Self-reliance is often mistaken for strength, but true strength includes the ability to seek help and share vulnerabilities.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
6 days ago

My Husband Doesn't Exactly "Measure Up." A Group of Women Has Made Him Acutely Aware of That.

Restoring confidence in a partner after a negative experience requires understanding and support tailored to their emotional and psychological needs.
#body-image
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Men and Body Image: The Hidden Struggle

Many men experience body image issues silently due to cultural expectations and stigma, leading to dissatisfaction and unhealthy behaviors.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

There is a particular loneliness in being a man whose body never matched the archetype he was taught to aspire to. Not because anyone was cruel about it, but because the world built its furniture, its expectations, and its respect around a size he would never reach. - Silicon Canals

Body image issues in men stem from societal expectations and architectural norms, leading to a profound, often unacknowledged loneliness.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago

Behind the rise of Clavicular and looksmaxxing' there are insecure young men who feel they don't measure up | Jason Okundaye

Online abuse affects mental health, leading to insecurities about appearance, especially for men and adolescents.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Men and Body Image: The Hidden Struggle

Many men experience body image issues silently due to cultural expectations and stigma, leading to dissatisfaction and unhealthy behaviors.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

There is a particular loneliness in being a man whose body never matched the archetype he was taught to aspire to. Not because anyone was cruel about it, but because the world built its furniture, its expectations, and its respect around a size he would never reach. - Silicon Canals

Body image issues in men stem from societal expectations and architectural norms, leading to a profound, often unacknowledged loneliness.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago

Behind the rise of Clavicular and looksmaxxing' there are insecure young men who feel they don't measure up | Jason Okundaye

Online abuse affects mental health, leading to insecurities about appearance, especially for men and adolescents.
fromHuffPost
1 week ago

This Is What Experts Want Men With Smaller Penises To Know

Dr. Mindy DeSeta states, 'Penis size is often treated like a shortcut - the bigger the penis, the more pleasure someone can supposedly give.' This cultural belief can significantly impact men's self-esteem and sexual confidence.
Relationships
#male-loneliness
fromBuzzFeed
1 week ago
Relationships

Men And Women Are Debating "The Male Loneliness Epidemic," And It's Incredibly Eye-Opening

Men today experience increased loneliness and isolation due to societal conditioning around masculinity and a narrow focus on romantic validation.
fromThe Atlantic
1 week ago
Humor

The Return of TV's Best Bromance

The media's portrayal of male loneliness often oversimplifies complex issues surrounding friendship and masculinity.
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
1 week ago

Men And Women Are Debating "The Male Loneliness Epidemic," And It's Incredibly Eye-Opening

Men today experience increased loneliness and isolation due to societal conditioning around masculinity and a narrow focus on romantic validation.
Humor
fromThe Atlantic
1 week ago

The Return of TV's Best Bromance

The media's portrayal of male loneliness often oversimplifies complex issues surrounding friendship and masculinity.
Relationships
fromIndependent
1 week ago

Asking for a friend: I can't keep an erection during sex and sometimes can't get hard at all. I'm not depressed or on medication, but I do watch a lot of porn

Erectile issues do not define masculinity; men are whole humans with real anxieties beyond physical performance.
#mens-mental-health
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

The Impact of Social Expectations on Men's Depression

Depression in men often manifests as disconnection and shame, influenced by internalized masculinity ideals, and can be addressed through therapy.
fromwww.mediaite.com
3 months ago
Right-wing politics

Matt Walsh Instructs Men to Never Reveal Their Most Intimate Feelings' to Their Wives Because They'll Look Weak

Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

The Impact of Social Expectations on Men's Depression

Depression in men often manifests as disconnection and shame, influenced by internalized masculinity ideals, and can be addressed through therapy.
fromwww.mediaite.com
3 months ago
Right-wing politics

Matt Walsh Instructs Men to Never Reveal Their Most Intimate Feelings' to Their Wives Because They'll Look Weak

Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

You can tell a man has lost his joy in life if he becomes very agreeable - if the opinions disappear, the pushback disappears, the spark of wanting something other than what is offered disappears - because a man without preferences is not a man at peace, he is a man who has stopped believing his preferences are worth the conversation - Silicon Canals

Men often lose their opinions and preferences, leading to a sense of surrender rather than maturity in decision-making.
fromQueerty
1 week ago

What's your opinion on body hair? - Queerty

In the '70s, the 'Castro Clone' aesthetic pushed a hyper-masc look that involved snug Levis, tight T-shirts and plenty of mustaches and fur.
NYC LGBT
Parenting
fromTODAY.com
2 weeks ago

Maren Morris Says Her 6-Year-Old Son Doesn't Need to 'Toughen Up'

Maren Morris advocates for raising boys without gender stereotypes, emphasizing emotional expression and individuality over traditional notions of toughness.
#identity
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago
Retirement

I spent a decade building a career I thought I wanted, a house I thought I needed, and a persona I thought would finally make me real - and one Saturday morning over coffee I sat with the quiet certainty that I had built all of it for someone who no longer lived inside me - Silicon Canals

fromSilicon Canals
4 weeks ago
Psychology

I'm 64 and I finally understand why my father sat in the car for ten minutes after pulling into the driveway every night. He wasn't on the phone. He wasn't tired. He was transitioning between the person the world required and the person his family needed, and neither one was him. - Silicon Canals

Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

I spent a decade building a career I thought I wanted, a house I thought I needed, and a persona I thought would finally make me real - and one Saturday morning over coffee I sat with the quiet certainty that I had built all of it for someone who no longer lived inside me - Silicon Canals

Building a life based on societal expectations can lead to a personal crisis when the facade becomes unsustainable.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
4 weeks ago

I'm 64 and I finally understand why my father sat in the car for ten minutes after pulling into the driveway every night. He wasn't on the phone. He wasn't tired. He was transitioning between the person the world required and the person his family needed, and neither one was him. - Silicon Canals

Many men of previous generations struggled with identity, managing societal expectations while suffering in silence.
LGBT
fromQueerty
2 weeks ago

Limp d*cks, "leak outs" & rage letters to dad: Inside the alpha male boot camp to "unf*ck" straight men - Queerty

Young straight men are struggling with dating, jobs, and education, often turning to misleading programs promising to enhance their masculinity.
Books
fromDefector
2 weeks ago

The Gentle Parenting Of Ben Lerner's 'Transcription' | Defector

Ben Lerner's novels explore themes of youth, sexuality, and the complexities of adulthood through autofictional narratives.
#lgbtq
fromLGBTQ Nation
9 months ago
Right-wing politics

Gay makeup artist mocks right-wing "bozos" for using his photo to celebrate rugged masculinity - LGBTQ Nation

NYC LGBT
fromQueerty
2 weeks ago

Hairy chests are making a comeback & shaved gays feel attacked - Queerty

The LGBTQ+ community's relationship with body hair has evolved from hyper-masculine aesthetics to embracing natural hairiness in recent years.
Right-wing politics
fromLGBTQ Nation
9 months ago

Gay makeup artist mocks right-wing "bozos" for using his photo to celebrate rugged masculinity - LGBTQ Nation

A gay makeup artist humorously highlights a far-right troll's mistake in using his image to promote conventional masculinity, unaware of his true identity.
SF LGBT
fromQueerty
2 weeks ago

WATCH: What do a lumberjack, a fireman & a f*ckboi have in common? This steamy short film series reveals all - Queerty

The Male Gaze: Naughty Boys showcases queer short films exploring themes of mischief, sexuality, and the struggle for identity among gay men.
#photography
Photography
fromItsnicethat
4 weeks ago

Valery Poshtarov's portraits of fathers and sons holding hands is a study of "what remains unsaid between men"

Valery Poshtarov's photography explores masculinity and tenderness through portraits of men holding hands, capturing vulnerability and connection.
Photography
fromItsnicethat
4 weeks ago

Valery Poshtarov's portraits of fathers and sons holding hands is a study of "what remains unsaid between men"

Valery Poshtarov's photography explores masculinity and tenderness through portraits of men holding hands, capturing vulnerability and connection.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

I'm 66 and my wife Donna pointed out that I fix things around the house the morning after every argument. Not because I'm avoiding the conversation. Because in my family, repair was always physical. You didn't say sorry. You replaced the broken shelf. You re-grouted the tiles. You showed up with actions because words were a foreign language nobody in the house had learned to speak. - Silicon Canals

Apologies can be structural actions rather than just verbal expressions, especially for men raised in environments where emotions were not openly discussed.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

There is a specific kind of masculinity that comes not from dominance but from integrity, calmness, and emotional steadiness - they make others feel safe - Silicon Canals

True strength in masculinity is calm, steady, and emotionally safe, contrasting with loud, dominant behaviors often mistaken for confidence.
Books
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

Baldwin by Nicholas Boggs review the relationships that drove a genius

James Baldwin's legacy has been revitalized, particularly through Raoul Peck's documentary, despite earlier criticisms of his work and its relevance.
LGBT
fromLGBTQ Nation
2 weeks ago

Fox Host says Gavin Newsom is a woman because he's always crying & crossing his legs - LGBTQ Nation

Jesse Watters mocked Gavin Newsom's masculinity, suggesting he is overly feminine and questioning the Democratic Party's need for a straight white male candidate.
Education
fromNature
2 weeks ago

Are boys really in crisis? What the science says in the age of the manosphere

Boys aged 12-16 express frustrations about masculinity, emotional support, and the lack of real-world spaces post-COVID-19.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

My father grew up in the 1960s and he's the toughest man I know - not because he's never been broken, but because I have never once seen him stay broken, and the speed with which he gets back up has always looked to me less like strength and more like a man who was simply never taught that staying down was an option - Silicon Canals

Men of previous generations often lacked the emotional vocabulary to process grief, leading to a stoic facade in the face of loss.
Right-wing politics
fromThe New Yorker
3 weeks ago

The Camps Promising to Turn You-or Your Son-Into an Alpha Male

Nick Adams promotes a vision of masculinity that appeals to young men, emphasizing traditional male roles and rejecting notions of toxic masculinity.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

Psychology says men raised in the 1960s and 70s weren't just taught to be strong - they were taught that strength meant carrying everything alone, and that single belief created a generation who confused endurance with emotional health - Silicon Canals

Men of previous generations were taught to handle stress alone, leading to emotional suppression and difficulties in expressing feelings.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

Psychology says the reason retired men sit in silence isn't because they have nothing to say - it's because they've lost the only identity anyone ever valued them for - Silicon Canals

Retirement can lead to a profound identity crisis for men who equate self-worth with professional achievement.
fromwww.dw.com
3 weeks ago

'Looksmaxxing': The manosphere beauty cult

Looksmaxxing influencers promise isolated young incels that they can improve their lives and sexual market value through rigorous diets, steroids, and even plastic surgery. The trend promotes painful procedures under the guise of male beautification.
Social media marketing
Chelsea
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Bad week for space invaders Chelsea shows us huddles are least of their problems | Barney Ronay

The Chelsea huddle symbolizes possession and dominance, creating a haunting image that reflects deeper cultural themes of masculinity and status.
Television
fromLGBTQ Nation
1 month ago

Star Trek's groundbreaking gay Klingon is battling hate in the sci-fi fandom - LGBTQ Nation

Star Trek: Starfleet Academy features diverse LGBTQ+ representation, sparking mixed reviews among fans and critics.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Husband Called Our 9-Year-Old a Slur. And He Meant It!

A father’s negative attitude towards his son’s interests poses a serious emotional risk to the child and requires immediate intervention.
#memoir
Books
fromVulture
1 month ago

Tom Junod's Family Secrets

Tom Junod's memoir investigates his father's hidden life through reported journalism, uncovering affairs and secrets beneath a charismatic public persona.
Silicon Valley food
fromGrub Street
1 month ago

Tom Junod Is a Waffle House Regular

Tom Junod's memoir explores his complex relationship with his father Lou through food memories, revealing how his father's charisma and unconventional approach to life shaped Junod's understanding of masculinity.
Books
fromVulture
1 month ago

Tom Junod's Family Secrets

Tom Junod's memoir investigates his father's hidden life through reported journalism, uncovering affairs and secrets beneath a charismatic public persona.
Silicon Valley food
fromGrub Street
1 month ago

Tom Junod Is a Waffle House Regular

Tom Junod's memoir explores his complex relationship with his father Lou through food memories, revealing how his father's charisma and unconventional approach to life shaped Junod's understanding of masculinity.
Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 month ago

My Wife Demands We Potty Train Our Son the "Manly" Way. This Is Absurd.

Parents should allow children to choose their preferred urination method rather than enforce gender-based expectations during potty training.
Relationships
fromEsquire
1 month ago

I Opened My Marriage, Then Started Dating One of My College Students. It Nearly Cost Me Everything.

A university professor's carefully constructed identity as emotionally intelligent and progressive masked performative behavior rooted in childhood patterns of seeking approval and avoiding authentic vulnerability.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

10 quiet traits of a genuinely good man, according to psychology - Silicon Canals

Genuinely good men demonstrate quiet integrity through listening, showing up without being asked, and doing the right thing without seeking recognition or reward.
LGBT
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

In Defense of Effeminate Gay Boys

Gender nonconformity in boys is a natural male variation, not an indicator of being female, and conflating the two undermines acceptance of diverse expressions of masculinity.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

The real reason your aging Boomer father sits in the car for ten minutes after pulling into the driveway isn't because he forgot something-those are the only minutes in his entire day when no one is waiting for him to be anything - Silicon Canals

I watched my neighbor pull into his driveway yesterday evening. Engine off. Lights still on. Just sitting there in the driver's seat, hands still on the wheel, staring straight ahead at his garage door. Ten minutes passed before he finally opened the car door and headed inside. I get it. I've been that guy. For forty years, I was an electrician. Started as an apprentice at eighteen, straight out of high school.
Mental health
Arts
fromCreative Boom
2 months ago

Li Wang captures life, love and longing in colour

Moving to New York exposed Li Wang to contemporary art, inspiring him to use painting to explore queer diasporic identity, bodies, desires and masculinity.
Social justice
fromHuffPost
2 months ago

Men Are More Likely To Exhibit This 1 Behavior When Other Men Are Creepy. The Reason Is Telling.

Bystanders, especially men, often fail to intervene in harassment due to masculine norms and socialization, leaving women to fend for themselves.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
2 months ago

'Mankeeping' Is Building Resentment In Straight Relationships. And Women Are Finally Talking About It.

Young women are increasingly withdrawing emotional labor from romantic relationships due to disproportionate, unrewarded burdens of men's emotional needs.
Film
fromInverse
2 months ago

How 'My Father's Shadow' Reinvents The Ghost Story

My Father's Shadow uses a Lagos-set coming-of-age narrative and metaphysical elements to process grief, imagined father-son conversations, and intergenerational, stoic masculinity.
fromBerlin Art Link
2 months ago

Preview of 'Jaripeo' at Berlinale | Berlin Art Link

The event draws both locals and migrants returning from the U.S., celebrating the traditional Michoacán cowboy and creating an atmosphere of nostalgia-while serving as a grand reminder of "what it means to be a man" in rural Mexican society. Beneath the rodeo's spectacle lies its subconscious pulse: fleeting touches, knowing glances and secretive hookups in the woods behind the arena.
Film
Wellness
fromenglish.elpais.com
2 months ago

When healthy living becomes repression

Emerging male-focused retreats and influencer-driven fitness culture emphasize strict discipline, hypermasculine rituals, and regimented wellness that can reshape men's identities and relationships.
LGBT
fromJezebel
2 months ago

There's a Tongue for Every Boot in the BDSM Fairy Tale Pillion

An unconventional gay romance frames kink and dominance as legitimate, romantic expressions, redefining 'happily ever after' through Colin and Ray's relationship.
US politics
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

On a street in Minneapolis, two versions of masculinity clashed. One anchored in fear, the other in care

Deep empathy combined with courage defines a healthier masculinity than the empathy-denying, macho MAGA vision.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

Playing a god became a safety net': Chris Hemsworth opens up about Thor, money and his insecurities

The role, which spanned nine films, put him up among the world's highest paid actors and made him a global pin-up. Yet the confidence was, in part, a construction. The character you see in interviews, he says, easing into the chaise longue, and the presentation of myself over the last two decades working in Hollywood, it's me but it's a creation too. It's what I thought people wanted to see.
Film
Television
fromInsideHook
2 months ago

Danny McBride Is Taking on Modern Masculinity - In Book Form

Danny McBride will publish Thrilling Tales of Modern Men, a short-story collection exploring chaotic, often toxic modern masculinity, on June 23 via Random House.
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

Sam Altman included a subtle dig at Mark Zuckerberg in his message to employees

The OpenAI CEO sent employees a message on Slack criticizing Immigration and Customs Enforcement - and appears to have taken the opportunity to also take a subtle jab at his rival, Mark Zuckerberg. The reference can be found where Altman wrote that OpenAI aims to "not get blown around by changing fashions." "We didn't start talking about masculine corporate energy when that was popular," Altman told employees.
Artificial intelligence
fromMedium
4 years ago

bell hooks saved me

bell hooks saved me. I say that in all sincerity. At a critical time in my life, when I was at my lowest point, it was bell hooks, through her books, who pulled me out of a hole of profound depression and set me on a path of self-renewal on which I have remained ever since. Newly divorced with two very young sons, I was determined to give a better fatherhood experience than the one I had.
Public health
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

Manosphere' influencers pushing testosterone tests are convincing healthy young men there is something wrong with them, study finds

Influencers and wellness companies promote routine testosterone screening to young men, medicalising normal variations and driving profit without clear clinical benefit.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

The emotion you get from the game is insane': the Roy Keane bust-up film leading a new type of football movie

But we do get one exception: Keane, played by Eanna Hardwicke, practising alone in the grounds. At the back of a court, the sullen, spartan athlete stands as a ball is fired up and over the net towards him. He tracks it with his eyes, opens up his right foot, takes the ball on his instep and kills it dead. And with that, his sporting bona fides are confirmed.
Soccer (FIFA)
fromBoston.com
3 months ago

Stay-at-home sons are here - and they're not going anywhere

He had just earned a master's degree in political science from the University of British Columbia and had recently sent off a raft of applications to law school. But he was between jobs. And he did live with his parents. "I figured, why not have some fun with it?" he said. "Better to be a 'stay-at-home son' than 'unemployed' or 'schmuck' or 'lazy guy.'"
US news
fromPinkNews | Latest lesbian, gay, bi and trans news | LGBTQ+ news
3 months ago

Hockey player Jesse Kortuem comes out as gay crediting Heated Rivalry

Describing himself as a "private person" Kortuem said Heated Rivalry had "sparked" something in him and inspired him to come out publicly. "I realised it is finally time to share a journey I have kept close to the vest for a long time," he said. He continued: "I felt I had to hide parts of myself for far too long," as he shared his experience growing up as the youngest of four boys in Minnesota where sports were a big part of life.
LGBT
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
3 months ago

Why Men Resist Therapy: Challenging Male Mythology

Rigid masculinity myths discourage men from seeking therapy, increasing untreated mental health problems; compassionate peer communities and lived-experience support can encourage help-seeking.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
3 months ago

What People With Big Penises Bring Up Most In Therapy

Larger penises can cause physical discomfort, sexual difficulties, and emotional strain for partners, requiring empathy, communication, and adapted techniques.
Film
fromwww.npr.org
3 months ago

In 'No Other Choice,' Park Chan-wook takes desperation for a job to the extreme

An unemployed former factory worker creates a fake hiring company to eliminate job competitors and regains masculine self-worth by committing murder.
Arts
fromBOOOOOOOM!
3 months ago

"Camouflaged" by Photographer Briar Pine

Camouflaged interrogates how transmasculine identities navigate pressures to assimilate into or resist patriarchal cultural structures through transformation, artifacts, and self-camouflaging.
Arts
fromwww.npr.org
3 months ago

In 'No Other Choice,' a loyal worker gets the ax and starts chopping

A long-serving employee's refusal to adapt leads him to extreme, violent measures to preserve identity and status amid corporate betrayal.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
3 months ago

What Does It Mean to Be a Man?

Perfectionistic, idealized cultural standards lead boys to adopt rigid, all-or-nothing notions of masculinity, causing distress and limiting self-acceptance.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 months ago

Male bonds develop one way, female friendships another. Should we stop trying to make men more like women? | Gaby Hinsliff

Friendships grounded in shared activities and companionable silence can create deep closeness and emotional support, especially for men raised with a “stiff upper lip.”
Women
fromPsychology Today
3 months ago

The Importance of Confronting Misogyny in Therapy

Misogyny is surging and increases risks to women; therapists must actively oppose misogynistic beliefs rather than remain neutral.
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 months ago

The year of the self-mocking man sketch: Dumb masculinity is very funny'

I'm gonna miss toxic masculinity, says the comedian Kiry Shabazz. I feel like it's going to be in a museum someday. In the ensuing standup routine, Shabazz describes a fight with a friend who, like him, is doing the work to be a better person. He called the friend several unprintable names while acknowledging: I'm only calling you that because culturally that's how I know how to express myself. The friend's reply to the torrent of insults: I hear you and I receive that.
Relationships
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
3 months ago

If Parents Want Youth Sports To Keep Going, It's Time To Step Up

Men should coach youth boys' sports to teach emotional vulnerability and healthier masculinity.
fromPsychology Today
3 months ago

How Father Absence Shapes Male Violence Worldwide

Camilo grew up surrounded by adults, yet without a stable father. His mother moved from one relationship to another, each new man arriving with promises of permanence and leaving with silence. By the time Camilo reached adolescence, he had called five different men "father," and none of them stayed. What formed inside him was not only grief, but confusion about what authority, protection, and masculinity were supposed to look like.
Psychology
fromMedievalists.net
3 months ago

Medieval Male Underwear: Hidden But Revealing - Medievalists.net

Medieval underwear is supposed to be the ultimate non-subject: private, practical, and largely invisible. Yet medieval artists kept finding ways to show it-right at the moments when a body matters most. In manuscripts, panel paintings, and devotional imagery from Northern Europe, men's undergarments-usually called braies-appear when someone is working, humiliated, punished, exposed, or put on display for a moral lesson.
History
Film
fromThe Atlantic
4 months ago

'The Sun Rises and Sets With Her, Man'

Michael Mann's films portray masculine professionals whose romantic relationships create the central conflict, making love itself the primary obstacle to their success.
fromThe New Yorker
4 months ago

Letters from Our Readers

Gopnik's piece sent me back to John Ruskin, whom he cites as "the greatest of architectural critics." In "The Stones of Venice," Ruskin insists that buildings record not just the ideals of those who commissioned them but also the conditions of those who built them. The East Wing was grafted onto an original structure that was built in part by enslaved people. Its neoclassical form proclaimed republican ideals; its production betrayed them.
US politics
Television
fromThe Atlantic
4 months ago

Keeping Your Friends Is Hard. 'SNL' Knows Why.

Andrew Dismukes's character in an SNL sketch passionately proposes weekly "Sunday Supper" dinners, faces friends' rejection, and collapses into an emotional, comedic breakdown.
US politics
fromenglish.elpais.com
4 months ago

Chapter 12: The exaltation of masculinity

The U.S. government is shifting toward restored traditional masculinity, renaming the Defense Department to the Department of War and promoting a warrior ethos.
Books
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 months ago

All My Precious Madness by Mark Bowles review a deliciously sweary, prize-winning monologue

All My Precious Madness is a sweary, audio-suited monologue giving voice to Henry Nash, exploring working-class identity, masculinity, and academic resentment, narrated by Paul Hilton.
US politics
fromBuzzFeed
4 months ago

The Manosphere Is Pulling In Men I Know, And I Understand Why It's So Appealing

Men join the manosphere seeking supportive male community and relief from cultural alienation, drawing even educated, partnered men into its influence.
Marketing
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 months ago

Scott Galloway on the masculinity crisis: I worry we are evolving a new breed of asexual, asocial males'

Scott Galloway offers candid, progressive guidance on modern masculinity, combining personal failures, practical advice, and liberal sensibilities.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
4 months ago

Men: Finding Their Way Home to Their Full Humanity

The Industrial Revolution reshaped men's identities toward machine-like roles, disconnecting them from bodily life, emotions, relationships, and holistic humanity.
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