Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
6 days agoI've Asked My Boyfriend to Stop Sabotaging Our Sex Life in This Way. His "Excuse" Is Beyond Selfish.
Communication and compromise are essential for a healthy sexual relationship.
She didn't necessarily expect you to read her mind; she informed you that what you did affected her emotionally. Maybe she implied or outright said that you never should have done it, but the main thrust of her feedback was to let you know that you upset her, not that you aren't psychic enough or should build a time machine so you can dissuade your past self from reaching for the Fleshlight on that greeting-card holiday.
She insists that we never have sex while we are guests in their home or they are guests in ours. As ridiculous as I think that is, I am willing to go along with it. However, my wife has now decided it even extends to self-pleasure. She has forbidden me from taking a Fleshlight and has gone so far as to say I'm not even allowed to jerk off! She's completely out of line here, right?