Why We Overbook Ourselves-and Constantly Regret It
Briefly

Many individuals have fallen into the trap of overcommitting, often saying 'yes' out of a fear of missing out or an attempt to manage underlying anxieties about uncertainty. This habitual overbooking can lead to chronic stress and burnout. The phenomenon of 'compulsive busyness' has emerged as a coping mechanism to create a sense of accomplishment and control in our fast-paced society. Despite appearing productive, such behaviors distract us from addressing deeper emotional struggles, ultimately compromising our well-being.
I've noticed an increasing trend to say "yes" to opportunities with the best of intentions, only to later find ourselves overwhelmed and depleted.
I believe overbooking can serve as a coping mechanism to manage underlying angst we're likely not addressing head-on, simulating control and accomplishment.
Compulsive busyness may have become a 'badge of honor' in our fast-paced culture, but it can lead to chronic stress and burnout.
The allure of busyness reflects an anxious response to life's uncertainties, revealing a deeper discomfort with impermanence and existential unease.
Read at Psychology Today
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