Asking Eric: My husband wants to renegotiate our deal about his horrible family
Briefly

In advising a woman who struggles with attending her husband's family events due to a toxic history, the counselor suggests prioritizing her own mental health. While the husband wishes to renegotiate their agreement and have her support at a half-sibling's wedding, the counselor notes that this request raises questions about his own feelings towards the family. The recommended approach is for the husband to assess the need for her presence and consider ways to navigate the family dynamics without compromising her well-being.
Stay home; husband has a family problem, which is not yours to fix.
I'm curious what makes this trip so different that he feels he needs you there.
Help him think through ways that he can feel empowered, despite the toxic dynamic.
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