The article addresses a letter from a cisgender bisexual woman who is confused about her sexual fantasies involving being a man with a female partner. The response clarifies that these fantasies aren't necessarily kinks but rather personal ideas that can be validating without needing to manifest in reality. It encourages exploration of these fantasies at her comfort level, suggesting potential activities like role play or experimenting with gender presentation, while emphasizing that she has the autonomy to decide how to engage with her fantasies.
Fantasies, by nature, are distinct from reality. They do not need to manifest in any way or live in any realm beyond thought in order to be valid.
Elements of sexuality and gender expression can start with an idea and bloom from there. People think about trying something, they try it, they maybe like it or not and proceed accordingly.
If your fantasies have piqued your curiosity, why not hook up with some women and attempt to play things out? You could use a strap-on or engage in role play.
These are your fantasies—make them work for you or let them stay fantasies. You get to choose.
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