Welcoming a grandchild is an exhilarating experience, yet it's crucial for grandparents to remember their role is supportive. Maria, a grandmother, emphasizes three rules for grandparents: 1) acknowledge you're not the parent, 2) respect the parents' boundaries, and 3) realize that it's not about you. Although some grandparents may struggle with these concepts, understanding that their role differs from that of parents can enhance family dynamics and support the new mom and dad in their parenting journey. Many supportive comments highlight the importance of these rules among grandparents.
"You're privileged to be a grandmother. You're not the mother," Maria reminded fellow grandparents.
"You don't have to understand, respect their boundaries," Maria said.
"You're not a victim, you're not a pushover. You're just being respectful of their role as parents and realizing that your role is a grandmother."
"This is great advice. I have 3 DILs and I respect all of their rules. I get along wonderfully with them. Sometimes I do not agree but you are right, they are the mommies!"
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