The letter writer, at 30 years old, feels pressured by her father and his boss to marry and have children, despite feeling fulfilled as a single woman. She has played a significant caregiving role for her nephews but firmly believes in her choice to stay childless and single. The advice offered suggests she openly express her feelings to her father, emphasizing her independence and the importance of making her own life choices. Furthermore, it encourages her to establish her living situation to reinforce her independence.
At 30, you should be able to make up your own mind about your future without 'help' from your father. Speak plainly about your wishes.
For the last 10 years, you have been subjected to an extra-large dose of parenting and housekeeping. If this isn’t for you, say so.
You didn’t mention your living situation, but if you are still living under your parents’ roof, it’s time to establish your independence.
It is important to communicate your feelings about your future plans directly to your father, as you deserve to make your own choices.
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