Another bully passes
Briefly

Upon revisiting connections with former bullies, I grapple with complicated feelings surrounding their deaths. One, who was once a dangerous figure, now feels like a victim of his circumstances. Another individual, a former role model who supported me initially, later revealed himself as a manipulator who encouraged toxic behaviors. This led me to reflect on the manipulative dynamics in relationships and the influence those figures could have, ultimately pushing me to seek healing and forward movement from these past experiences.
This individual was dangerous when he was alive, yet I’ve started to see him as another victim of circumstance, highlighting the complexity of human behavior.
In retrospect, the group I once looked up to revealed its true nature, and their subtle manipulation fostered a toxic environment that empowered harm.
Witnessing the passing of those who once bullied me evokes a mix of grief and liberation, reminding me to acknowledge past pains while striving to move forward.
Reflecting on my past relationships, I realize they were not merely bullies but products of an outdated ideology, influencing others to perpetuate old mistakes.
Read at Portland Mercury
[
|
]