A reader expresses frustration over a close friend's secrecy about using a hair growth product, particularly after the reader mentioned considering the same treatment. Although the reader feels betrayed, the advice column emphasizes that there’s no etiquette rule requiring individuals to disclose personal self-improvement methods, like medical treatments or interventions. The columnist encourages understanding that not everyone is comfortable sharing their struggles with such matters, suggesting that the friend's choice not to share was within his rights.
There is no rule of etiquette that dictates anyone must share this kind of information.
Try to remember that not everyone is comfortable talking about medical interventions they are using for self-improvement.
Your friend was nice to mention that he has been using a product similar to the one you are contemplating, but he was under no requirement to do so.
It's important to understand that personal struggles with self-improvement may not be something everyone is willing to disclose.
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