The article discusses a parent's dilemma about including their son's girlfriend on a family vacation. The parent is concerned about the appropriateness of the girlfriend's clothing and public displays of affection, considering younger siblings' presence. Despite the son's insistence on bringing her along, the parent emphasizes the importance of family bonding and sets boundaries regarding behavior and attire. In a separate situation, one friend reflects on personal feelings of jealousy affecting her long-term friendship, showcasing the complexities of relationships and the evolution of friendships over time.
Your concerns are valid, but you need to look at the big picture. Talk to your son and his girlfriend, if possible... If they are unwilling to comply, she cannot come even if that means your family misses out on quality time.
I explained that it's OK for some things to be family-only... My son is already away at college, so his younger siblings really cherish the time they spend with him on these vacations.
I felt competitive... it was part of me envied how she was perceived, especially in comparison with how I am sometimes perceived.
There came a time where my jealousy was heightened and it impacted our relationship. It's a tough realization to face but sometimes friendships evolve in unexpected ways.
Collection
[
|
...
]