In Slate's Dear Prudence column, a reader grapples with a friend's insistence on confronting her father about past disciplinary actions, despite the reader having reconciled with her father. The reader reflects on her childhood experiences and recognizes she and her siblings were often mischievous, understanding the context of their father's disciplinary actions. While the reader appreciates her friend's concern, she questions the need for confrontation since she feels at peace with her past. Prudence recommends discussing the issue with her friend directly, emphasizing personal boundaries and acceptance of their differing perspectives.
It sounds to me like you've settled things properly with your father, so it's very strange (and meddlesome!) that your friend can't seem to let this go.
Tell your friend that while you appreciate her concern, you're satisfied with the way you've addressed your childhood with your father and with the state of your relationship.
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