The letter highlights the challenges of sharing a workspace with a spouse who is currently unproductive. The husband, previously engaged in his career, is now faced with an extended period of inactivity, leading to feelings of inadequacy and a lack of interest in hobbies or meaningful pursuits. The author expresses frustration with her husband's behavior and the emotional toll it's taking on her. The response suggests that the husband's state may reflect a deeper struggle with his current situation, likening it to the difficulties many face when contemplating retirement.
I suspect some of the malaise that's fallen over him—the napping, the loss of interest in hobbies—reflects this unmet desire. While getting paid to do nothing might suit some, this shift in his workload could be bringing feelings of inadequacy, failure, or even fear.
A big difference between your husband and Garfield is that your husband wants to work. Many people express trepidation about transitioning to retired life—it's a huge life shift.
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