Parenting
fromSlate Magazine
1 day agoI Just Turned 40. My Mom Still Hijacks My Birthday Every Year.
Establish boundaries with your mother regarding birthday celebrations to prioritize your own needs and desires.
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Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoPsychology says adult children who feel guilty about setting limits with their parents aren't being ungrateful - they're trying to break a pattern that was never supposed to reach them in the first place - Silicon Canals
Guilt from parental boundaries stems from inherited generational patterns, not ingratitude, and understanding these cycles enables healthier adult relationships with parents.
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1 month agoPsychology says people who were the "easy child" in their family didn't actually have fewer needs - they just learned faster than their siblings that expressing those needs came at a cost - Silicon Canals
Children who suppress their needs to avoid conflict often internalize the belief that having needs makes them burdensome, carrying this pattern into adulthood.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoPeople who grew up translating adult emotions as children now read every room they walk into - Silicon Canals
Children from emotionally volatile homes develop hypervigilance, learning to read adult emotions and microexpressions as survival mechanisms that persist into adulthood.
fromwww.scientificamerican.com
5 months agoThis Is How Childhood Relationships Affect Your Adult Attachment Style
We come into the world screaming and vulnerableentirely dependent on adult caregivers to keep us safe and teach us how to connect with others. The nature of these earliest relationships influences how we behave towards others and see the world long after we've grownbut in more complex and nuanced ways than researchers previously thought, according to the results of a large, decades-long study examining how the quality of children's interactions with parents and close peers went on to influence their relationships in adulthood.
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