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Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 hours agoResearch suggests actively concealing your real self from the people around you produces a form of loneliness that's measurably harder on the mind than physical isolation - Silicon Canals
Self-concealment, not solitude, predicts distress and correlates with mental and physical health issues.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 hours agoThe forgotten generation isn't the young people struggling to find their place in the world - it's the retirees sitting in fully paid-off houses with lifetimes of experience, waiting for a phone call that the modern world no longer knows it's supposed to make - Silicon Canals
Older adults possess valuable experience but are often overlooked and isolated in contemporary society.
#aging
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 hours agoI'm 66 and the woman at the pharmacy called me "sweetie" yesterday while handing me my medication and I nearly broke down in the parking lot - not because it was patronizing but because it was the warmest thing anyone had said to me in weeks, and when a stranger's automatic kindness is the closest thing to tenderness in your life, you start to understand a kind of loneliness that doesn't have a name but has an address and you're living in it - Silicon Canals
Modern loneliness intensifies with age as personal connections diminish, leading to feelings of isolation and longing for genuine human interaction.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoThere's a certain kind of loneliness that only hits after 60 - not the loneliness of being alone, but the loneliness of being with people who love the person you've always been and have no idea who you're becoming - Silicon Canals
Loneliness after sixty stems from being surrounded by people who see an outdated version of oneself, not from physical absence.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoPsychology says people who become lonelier as they get older aren't losing social skills - they're losing patience for superficial connection, and the loneliness is the price they pay for refusing to settle for relationships that don't actually feed them - Silicon Canals
Older adults may have fewer friends by choice, prioritizing meaningful relationships over quantity, which can lead to feelings of loneliness.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoPsychology says people who reach their 60s without a large circle of friends aren't lonely - they're the ones who figured out the one relationship truth that emotionally intelligent people swear by, which is that one person who truly sees you is worth more than a hundred people who only know your name - Silicon Canals
Aging often leads to fewer but deeper friendships, resulting in better well-being rather than increased loneliness.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
4 hours agoI'm 66 and the woman at the pharmacy called me "sweetie" yesterday while handing me my medication and I nearly broke down in the parking lot - not because it was patronizing but because it was the warmest thing anyone had said to me in weeks, and when a stranger's automatic kindness is the closest thing to tenderness in your life, you start to understand a kind of loneliness that doesn't have a name but has an address and you're living in it - Silicon Canals
Modern loneliness intensifies with age as personal connections diminish, leading to feelings of isolation and longing for genuine human interaction.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoThere's a certain kind of loneliness that only hits after 60 - not the loneliness of being alone, but the loneliness of being with people who love the person you've always been and have no idea who you're becoming - Silicon Canals
Loneliness after sixty stems from being surrounded by people who see an outdated version of oneself, not from physical absence.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoPsychology says people who become lonelier as they get older aren't losing social skills - they're losing patience for superficial connection, and the loneliness is the price they pay for refusing to settle for relationships that don't actually feed them - Silicon Canals
Older adults may have fewer friends by choice, prioritizing meaningful relationships over quantity, which can lead to feelings of loneliness.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoPsychology says people who reach their 60s without a large circle of friends aren't lonely - they're the ones who figured out the one relationship truth that emotionally intelligent people swear by, which is that one person who truly sees you is worth more than a hundred people who only know your name - Silicon Canals
Aging often leads to fewer but deeper friendships, resulting in better well-being rather than increased loneliness.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
13 hours agoPsychology says the most dangerous form of loneliness isn't being alone. It's being surrounded by people while performing a version of yourself that none of them would recognize if they saw you at home on a Sunday afternoon. - Silicon Canals
The gap between one's public persona and private self creates a profound sense of loneliness.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
14 hours agoSomewhere around 55 a man realizes that every friend he has is actually his wife's friend's husband, and if the dinner invitations ever stopped coming, he would not have a single person to call, and he knows this, and he has never said it out loud - Silicon Canals
Loneliness in men often increases with age, despite societal beliefs that marriage and family provide social fulfillment.
#social-connections
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoThere's a version of loneliness that only arrives inside a crowded room full of people who like you, and it comes from the slow realization that what they like is a performance you can no longer remember choosing to start - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can persist even in social settings, stemming from a disconnect between one's true self and the persona they project.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoI'm 37 and I realized last month that I have two hundred contacts in my phone and not a single person I could call at 2 AM without feeling like I was being a burden - and that math broke something in me - Silicon Canals
Social connections can be numerous yet lack depth, leading to feelings of isolation despite being socially active.
#social-performance
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 day agoLoneliness doesn't always look like an empty room. Sometimes it looks like a person who laughs at every joke, remembers every birthday, shows up at every event, and drives home afterward in total silence wondering why none of it ever reaches the part of them that's still starving. - Silicon Canals
Social starvation and social performance can coexist, leading to a deeper crisis of loneliness that isn't solely defined by the absence of social contact.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoThere's a specific kind of social performance I've perfected over twenty years of having no close friends. I can walk into any room, be warm and engaged for three hours, drive home in complete silence, and feel more alone than I did before I arrived - Silicon Canals
Social performance can mask deep loneliness, as individuals may connect outwardly but feel isolated internally.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 days agoThere's a particular kind of loneliness that only hits people who are well-liked. It's the loneliness of being chosen for your warmth but never asked about your winters. Everyone assumes the person who makes them feel good must already feel good, and the assumption becomes the cage. - Silicon Canals
Well-liked individuals often mask their struggles, leading to loneliness despite social popularity.
#retirement
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoResearch suggests the loneliness people feel after a long career ends isn't about missing the work - it's about discovering that most of their relationships were infrastructure, not friendship - Silicon Canals
Retirement often leads to unexpected loneliness due to the loss of social structures that support friendships.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoI retired at 64 with a generous pension and a calendar full of plans - and by month three I was staring at my phone realizing I had nobody to call just to talk, not because I needed something - Silicon Canals
Retirement can lead to unexpected loneliness and a realization of the lack of genuine friendships built outside of work.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoResearch suggests the loneliness people feel after a long career ends isn't about missing the work - it's about discovering that most of their relationships were infrastructure, not friendship - Silicon Canals
Retirement often leads to unexpected loneliness due to the loss of social structures that support friendships.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoI retired at 64 with a generous pension and a calendar full of plans - and by month three I was staring at my phone realizing I had nobody to call just to talk, not because I needed something - Silicon Canals
Retirement can lead to unexpected loneliness and a realization of the lack of genuine friendships built outside of work.
#relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoRelationships
The cruelest form of loneliness isn't having nobody. It's having people who love you in a way that doesn't quite reach the part of you that needs reaching, so you feel guilty for still being hungry at a table that everyone else thinks is full. - Silicon Canals
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says the loneliness of having no close friends is not the same loneliness of being isolated - it is the loneliness of being consistently almost known, of spending years in relationships that go up to the edge of real intimacy and stop, and the stopping is always the same stopping and it is always your own hand on the door - Silicon Canals
Real connection requires depth, not just quantity, in relationships to avoid feelings of isolation.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoBehavioral scientists found that loneliness at 25 and loneliness at 75 share the same core feeling - the belief that you've become optional to the people you thought were permanent, and that realization hits identically whether you're scrolling Instagram in a studio apartment or sitting in a paid-off house watching your phone not ring - Silicon Canals
Loneliness at different ages stems from feeling optional to once-essential relationships.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoQuote by Robin Williams: "I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone" - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can occur even in relationships where one feels invisible despite being surrounded by others.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 days agoThe cruelest form of loneliness isn't having nobody. It's having people who love you in a way that doesn't quite reach the part of you that needs reaching, so you feel guilty for still being hungry at a table that everyone else thinks is full. - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can persist even in loving relationships when emotional needs remain unmet and unexpressed.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says the loneliness of having no close friends is not the same loneliness of being isolated - it is the loneliness of being consistently almost known, of spending years in relationships that go up to the edge of real intimacy and stop, and the stopping is always the same stopping and it is always your own hand on the door - Silicon Canals
Real connection requires depth, not just quantity, in relationships to avoid feelings of isolation.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoBehavioral scientists found that loneliness at 25 and loneliness at 75 share the same core feeling - the belief that you've become optional to the people you thought were permanent, and that realization hits identically whether you're scrolling Instagram in a studio apartment or sitting in a paid-off house watching your phone not ring - Silicon Canals
Loneliness at different ages stems from feeling optional to once-essential relationships.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoQuote by Robin Williams: "I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone" - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can occur even in relationships where one feels invisible despite being surrounded by others.
#friendship
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
2 weeks agoHow to Cultivate Adult Friendships
Negative beliefs about rejection hinder relationship building, while consistent interactions and practicing social skills foster connections and reduce anxiety.
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoRelationships
Adults who reach their 60s without close friends aren't the ones who couldn't maintain connection - they're often the ones who maintained every connection single-handedly for decades until the effort of always being the one who calls, always being the one who remembers, always being the one who shows up became heavier than the loneliness of letting it all go - Silicon Canals
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoResearch says the health consequences of having no close friends are not metaphorical - the immune system is measurably weaker, the cognitive decline measurably faster, and the recovery from illness measurably slower, which means the body is not waiting for a person to feel lonely before it starts responding to the fact that they are - Silicon Canals
Friendships are crucial for health; loneliness has measurable physical effects on the body, impacting immune response and increasing disease risk.
Retirement
fromSilicon Canals
4 days agoI retired two years ago and the part nobody warned me about isn't the boredom or the loss of purpose. It's that the friendships I thought were mine actually belonged to the job, and the job took them when it left. - Silicon Canals
Retirement reveals that many friendships were based on shared work experiences rather than genuine connections.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoPsychology says the loneliest part of getting older isn't being alone - it's realizing that some friendships were only meant for a season, and not everyone grows with you - Silicon Canals
Friendships often fade as adults prioritize responsibilities and seek deeper connections, leading to feelings of loneliness even among familiar faces.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoAdults who reach their 60s without close friends aren't the ones who couldn't maintain connection - they're often the ones who maintained every connection single-handedly for decades until the effort of always being the one who calls, always being the one who remembers, always being the one who shows up became heavier than the loneliness of letting it all go - Silicon Canals
Friendships require mutual effort; imbalance can lead to loneliness without realization.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoResearch says the health consequences of having no close friends are not metaphorical - the immune system is measurably weaker, the cognitive decline measurably faster, and the recovery from illness measurably slower, which means the body is not waiting for a person to feel lonely before it starts responding to the fact that they are - Silicon Canals
Friendships are crucial for health; loneliness has measurable physical effects on the body, impacting immune response and increasing disease risk.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
5 days agoA letter to the person who is terrified of giving up being single: the freedom you're protecting is real, and the loneliness you're tolerating is also real, and the courage isn't in choosing one over the other, it's in admitting you've been holding both this entire time - Silicon Canals
Long-term singleness can bring both genuine freedom and loneliness, challenging the narratives of being either broken or enlightened.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoNobody prepares you for the particular loneliness of not enjoying your own life - not because it's empty, but because it looks so full from the outside that you can't even say it out loud without feeling like you're complaining - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can stem from feeling disconnected from a seemingly successful life, leading to a hollow experience despite external appearances.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says the loneliest generation in history isn't Gen Z - it's the boomers who raised everyone, hosted everything, and are now sitting in quiet houses wondering where everybody went - Silicon Canals
The loneliest generation today is not Gen Z, but the baby boomers who once held social connections together.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says the loneliness most common after 70 isn't the loneliness of being alone - it's the loneliness of being surrounded by people who love the version of you that you've been performing for forty years - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can stem from being surrounded by loved ones who only know a curated version of oneself.
#social-isolation
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says the loneliness that arrives after 65 isn't an inevitable feature of aging - it's the accumulated result of every friendship that was allowed to thin, every phone call that was delayed, every invitation that wasn't extended, compounded quietly over decades until the social life that once maintained itself without effort requires more effort than it has ever required and more energy than is currently available - Silicon Canals
Loneliness often stems from a series of small decisions that weaken social connections over time.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoI used to be lonely and now I'm not, and the honest version of how that happened isn't that I found my people - it's that I stopped waiting for someone to come find me and quietly became someone worth finding - Silicon Canals
Loneliness stems from perceived social isolation, not just being alone; true connection requires internal change rather than external circumstances.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says the loneliness that arrives after 65 isn't an inevitable feature of aging - it's the accumulated result of every friendship that was allowed to thin, every phone call that was delayed, every invitation that wasn't extended, compounded quietly over decades until the social life that once maintained itself without effort requires more effort than it has ever required and more energy than is currently available - Silicon Canals
Loneliness often stems from a series of small decisions that weaken social connections over time.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoThe people who are best at hiding unhappiness aren't the stoic ones or the quiet ones - they're the ones who became so skilled at giving everyone around them exactly enough warmth to never be looked at too closely - Silicon Canals
People often hide their struggles behind a facade of warmth, leading to loneliness despite appearing thriving.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says people who are nice on the surface but have no close friends aren't lonely because nobody wants them - they're lonely because the version of them that everyone wants is not the version that needs anything, and a self that never needs anything is a self that nobody ever gets close enough to actually know - Silicon Canals
Being nice can lead to emotional isolation and a lack of true connection with others.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoThere is a particular loneliness in being a man whose body never matched the archetype he was taught to aspire to. Not because anyone was cruel about it, but because the world built its furniture, its expectations, and its respect around a size he would never reach. - Silicon Canals
Body image issues in men stem from societal expectations and architectural norms, leading to a profound, often unacknowledged loneliness.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoThe most painful version of not belonging isn't being rejected by strangers. It's sitting at your own family's dinner table, surrounded by people who share your last name, and feeling like you're watching the evening through glass. - Silicon Canals
Belonging can exist alongside profound loneliness, where one feels unseen even in the presence of family and friends.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 week agoPsychology says the loneliest people in life aren't the ones nobody likes - they're the kind, helpful people everyone appreciates but nobody thinks to check on because they seem so self-sufficient - Silicon Canals
Highly capable, helpful individuals often feel lonely because their strength creates an illusion that they do not need support.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoThe loneliest people at the party are often the ones everybody knows - they've become so reliable at reflecting others back to themselves that nobody ever thinks to ask what's actually happening behind their eyes - Silicon Canals
Being the social mirror for others can lead to feelings of loneliness and invisibility, despite appearing socially connected.
Writing
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoI'm 66 and the loneliest I've ever felt wasn't after my children left or my friends moved away - it was the morning I woke up and realized I had nothing that needed me, nothing that depended on my showing up, and the whole day stretched ahead like a road with no destination - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can stem from feeling unnecessary, not just from being alone.
#social-connection
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoThe loneliest people aren't those who lack social skills - they're the ones whose social skills are mismatched to their environment, like someone fluent in a language nobody around them speaks, which is why they can feel completely isolated in a room full of people - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can affect anyone, even those with good social skills, highlighting the importance of meaningful connections over mere social interaction.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoPsychology says the people who actually escape loneliness don't do it by finding more people - they do it by finally dropping the version of themselves that made real connection impossible in the first place - Silicon Canals
Loneliness stems from a lack of genuine connection, not merely from being alone or having many acquaintances.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoThere's a specific kind of loneliness that hits hardest at 35. Not the loneliness of being alone on a Friday night, but of realizing you could disappear for a week and the only people who'd notice are the ones who need something from you. - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can peak in mid-thirties, often unnoticed despite a busy life.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoIntroverts often don't realize it but psychology says the way they experience loneliness is fundamentally different from most people - they rarely feel it from being alone, they feel it most in groups where the conversation never drops below surface level - Silicon Canals
Loneliness for introverts often stems from unsatisfying social interactions rather than solitude, highlighting the need for meaningful connections.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoWhy the loneliest people in a room are rarely the quiet ones in the corner - they're the ones making everyone laugh, because humor became their way of being near people without ever having to be seen by them - Silicon Canals
Humor serves as a tool for lonely individuals to manage emotional distance in social interactions.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoThere's a specific kind of loneliness that belongs to people who are funny in groups but completely unreachable one-on-one, and it's the loneliness of having learned that performance is safer than proximity - Silicon Canals
Affiliative humor fosters connection but can prevent deeper intimacy, leading to a specific kind of loneliness for those who rely on it.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks agoPeople who were always the strong one in the family often become the loneliest person in the room after 65. Every link must be real and accurate - Silicon Canals
Being the strong one in a family can lead to profound loneliness in later life due to a lack of emotional reciprocity.
#grief
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoNobody warns you that grief and loneliness are two different animals that hunt together. Grief takes the person. Loneliness takes every small moment you used to share with them and leaves you standing in the kitchen holding two coffee cups out of habit, morning after morning, until you teach yourself to reach for one. - Silicon Canals
Grief and loneliness are distinct experiences that affect individuals differently, with grief being a communal event and loneliness a persistent absence.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoNobody warns you that grief and loneliness are two different animals that hunt together. Grief takes the person. Loneliness takes every small moment you used to share with them and leaves you standing in the kitchen holding two coffee cups out of habit, morning after morning, until you teach yourself to reach for one. - Silicon Canals
Grief and loneliness are distinct experiences that affect individuals differently, with grief being a communal event and loneliness a persistent absence.
Mindfulness
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoThere's a version of solitude that belongs to people who spent decades being everything to everyone - and the peace they find in retirement isn't loneliness, it's recovery. Every link must be real and accurate - Silicon Canals
Retirement solitude can be a recovery of self rather than loneliness, offering peace and clarity for many.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoThe loneliest generation in history isn't the one glued to their phones. It's the one that raised everyone, worked without complaint, retired without ceremony, and is now sitting in houses that used to be full of noise wondering when the silence became permanent. - Silicon Canals
Many older adults experience profound loneliness due to a lifetime of valuing independence and self-sufficiency over connection.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoPeople born between 1945 and 1965 were raised in a culture where needing people was weakness, asking for help was failure, and independence was the highest virtue. Now they're the most isolated generation in modern history and the very traits that made them survivors are the ones keeping them alone. - Silicon Canals
Loneliness affects older generations more than commonly believed, as societal norms discourage emotional expression and connection.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoThere's a version of loneliness that belongs to people who moved far from where they grew up and built a beautiful life somewhere new, only to realize that nobody in their current world knew who they were before. And sometimes being fully known matters more than being fully comfortable. - Silicon Canals
Loneliness can stem from not being known, even in social environments full of warmth and connection.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks agoPsychology says the loneliest part of high intelligence isn't being misunderstood - it's watching people you care about make decisions you can see will hurt them and knowing that explaining why won't help because the gap isn't in information, it's in how you process consequences six moves ahead while they're still on move one - Silicon Canals
Intelligence involves not just knowledge but the ability to foresee consequences, creating a gap that can lead to loneliness.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
4 weeks agoThere's a version of loneliness that only hits in your 40s where you look at the life you built and realize every single room in it was designed for someone else's comfort. The house is full. You're the one who's missing. - Silicon Canals
Midlife loneliness often stems from neglecting one's own life while focusing on others, rather than from losing connections.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoIf a person in their forties says they prefer being alone, listen carefully to whether they said it with peace or with rehearsal, because one is a preference and the other is a script they wrote to survive a loneliness they stopped fighting years ago - Silicon Canals
Middle-aged loneliness often manifests as performed preference for solitude, distinguishable from genuine contentment with being alone through speech patterns and emotional authenticity.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoNeuroscience is beginning to explain why people who spend their workday on video calls feel a specific kind of loneliness that is different from actual isolation - Silicon Canals
Loneliness stems from absent felt connection, a neurological event, not proximity; video calls create appearance of connection while failing to deliver neural synchrony required for genuine social bonding.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoThere is a specific kind of loneliness that comes from being surrounded by people who only know the version of you that keeps everything together - Silicon Canals
The better you are at managing your emotions, the less emotional support people offer you. It's not cruelty. It's perceptual bias. People take your composure at face value because it's efficient for them to do so. A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that people consistently underestimate the emotional needs of those they perceive as high copers.
Psychology
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago7 signs someone is deeply lonely but has gotten so good at hiding it that even their closest friends can't tell - Silicon Canals
Loneliness often hides behind social success and busyness, affecting people who appear most put-together and socially confident while struggling privately.
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoThere is a particular loneliness that comes from being surrounded by people who love you but don't understand you, and no amount of gratitude makes it go away - Silicon Canals
A landmark review published in Perspectives on Psychological Science by John Cacioppo and Stephanie Cacioppo found that loneliness is driven not by the quantity of social connections but by their perceived quality. You can be isolated and feel perfectly whole. You can be surrounded and feel utterly alone.
Mental health
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 month agoThere is a specific kind of loneliness that only hits people who are surrounded by others but understood by none of them - Silicon Canals
Existential isolation—feeling fundamentally unseen despite social proximity—causes distress independent of social contact quantity and differs from traditional loneliness.
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month agoAre dating apps giving people the ick? | Dave Schilling
Valentine's Day is mercifully behind us for another year, so we can all go back to not loving each other again. How wonderful it is to be freed of the burden of expressing our emotions in public. I didn't post a flowery declaration of devotion for my girlfriend on social media, and I kept expecting a flood of messages asking me if we'd broken up already. Such is the peer pressure of a holiday designed purely to justify our own self-worth.
Digital life
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month agoIt helps with loneliness': grief, play and the power of lifelike dolls - photo essay
It's a doll, Ineke Schmelter, 71, often says as she walks down the street with a pram and someone peers fondly under the hood, asking: How old is the baby? Then she pulls back the blanket and reveals the doll. She points out the craftsmanship the little veins, the creases in the skin and explains that it can take as many as 20 layers of paint to achieve such a lifelike finish.
Arts
fromBusiness Insider
1 month agoMost of my kids have moved out of the house, except for my youngest. I'm worried she's lonely in our near-empty nest.
As the youngest of four, my daughter probably hasn't known a totally peaceful day since she arrived home from the hospital. She was the travel baby - waking up in her infant seat to discover she'd been carted to a school play, T-ball practice, or school pickup. She had built-in playmates right from the start, though, of course, they bickered and fought like any other siblings.
Relationships
fromFast Company
1 month agoThis new social network is designed specifically for neurodivergent adults
Can AI help neurodivergent adults connect with each other? That's the bet of a new social network called Synchrony, which believes AI and a well-designed social network with the right safeguards can reduce social atomization and calm the overwhelming cacophony of socializing online.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months agoYou think: Do I really need anyone?' the hidden burden of being a hyper-independent person
I took it upon myself to be that person in the hospital every single day chasing doctors, taking notes, making sure I understood why they were doing things. It was so stressful, she says, that at one point her hair started falling out, but she ploughed on. It was Jones's therapist who gently questioned whether she was going to ask for help. Jones laughs. The hair falling out didn't suggest to me that I needed help, it was somebody else looking in and saying that.
Mental health
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