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Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
21 hours ago

Most men who grew up in the 1960s and 70s were taught that admitting you needed help was a character flaw. Finally, we are discovering that openness has its own kind of strength. - Silicon Canals

Men are taught to suppress emotions, leading to loneliness and health issues.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
14 hours ago

How Social Class Shapes Identity

Social class influences identity and emotional well-being, often unnoticed, leading to anxiety and low self-esteem when transitioning between classes.
SF LGBT
fromwww.theguardian.com
18 hours ago

Let's talk about sex in a world of porn | Letter

Straight male authors should embrace writing about sex, but the urgent conversation on sexual knowledge and pleasure is happening outside of literature.
#manosphere
Social media marketing
fromMedium
1 day ago

I watched the manosphere documentary; here is how design is making things worse.

The manosphere thrives on toxic online communities that promote misogyny and anti-feminism, driven by algorithms rewarding controversial content.
Parenting
fromFatherly
4 days ago

Gary Vaynerchuk Just Wants Us All To Be (And Raise) Nice Guys

Parents must shield their children from the manosphere's negative influences and choose positive role models instead.
Humor
fromBuzzFeed
1 week ago

Here's What My Woke Teenage Brothers Had To Say About "Into the Manosphere"

Concerns about young males being influenced by the manosphere and traditional gender roles are growing.
Film
fromIndieWire
4 weeks ago

Netflix's 'Manosphere' Dares to Ask: Should Men Make Documentaries About Sexism? - Opinion

Netflix's 'Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere' fails to adequately examine gender relations breakdown, instead amplifying misogynist influencers' reach and legitimizing their ideas.
Social media marketing
fromMedium
1 day ago

I watched the manosphere documentary; here is how design is making things worse.

The manosphere thrives on toxic online communities that promote misogyny and anti-feminism, driven by algorithms rewarding controversial content.
Parenting
fromFatherly
4 days ago

Gary Vaynerchuk Just Wants Us All To Be (And Raise) Nice Guys

Parents must shield their children from the manosphere's negative influences and choose positive role models instead.
Humor
fromBuzzFeed
1 week ago

Here's What My Woke Teenage Brothers Had To Say About "Into the Manosphere"

Concerns about young males being influenced by the manosphere and traditional gender roles are growing.
Film
fromIndieWire
4 weeks ago

Netflix's 'Manosphere' Dares to Ask: Should Men Make Documentaries About Sexism? - Opinion

Netflix's 'Louis Theroux: Inside the Manosphere' fails to adequately examine gender relations breakdown, instead amplifying misogynist influencers' reach and legitimizing their ideas.
fromSilicon Canals
1 day ago

The reason some men never move forward in life has nothing to do with motivation or discipline - it's that they built their entire identity around a version of themselves that stopped being true years ago, and starting over feels like admitting it was all wasted - Silicon Canals

The identity had become so central to who I thought I was that letting it go felt like admitting that entire chapter of my life had been pointless.
Bootstrapping
Women in technology
fromFast Company
3 days ago

There's a curious phenomenon happening in the marketing industry. Is it a sign of 'masculinization'?

Marketing is experiencing a rebranding trend to attract more men, with traditional roles being given technical titles.
#male-loneliness
fromBuzzFeed
4 days ago
Relationships

Men And Women Are Debating "The Male Loneliness Epidemic," And It's Incredibly Eye-Opening

Mental health
fromBuzzFeed
2 weeks ago

Therapists Are Sharing What's Actually Going On With The Male Loneliness Epidemic

Addressing male loneliness requires understanding the complexities of emotional pain and the impact of harmful online communities.
Relationships
fromBuzzFeed
4 days ago

Men And Women Are Debating "The Male Loneliness Epidemic," And It's Incredibly Eye-Opening

Men today experience increased loneliness and isolation due to societal conditioning around masculinity and a narrow focus on romantic validation.
Mental health
fromBuzzFeed
2 weeks ago

Therapists Are Sharing What's Actually Going On With The Male Loneliness Epidemic

Addressing male loneliness requires understanding the complexities of emotional pain and the impact of harmful online communities.
Arts
fromwww.theguardian.com
4 days ago

Art, sex, nature: why is everything sold to us as a means to an end, rather than an end in itself?

Art should be valued for its own sake, not merely for its utilitarian benefits or health claims.
Books
fromwww.theguardian.com
6 days ago

Too hot to handle? Why it's time for straight male authors to rediscover sex

Straight male writers often avoid writing about sex, fearing it may seem exploitative or gratuitous, unlike their female counterparts.
SF LGBT
fromWIRED
1 day ago

The Influencers Normalizing Not Having Sex

Abstinence from sex is rising among both genders, with young women experiencing a significant increase in celibacy.
Writing
fromJezebel
1 week ago

The Culture Men Protect With Their Silence

A girl was raped in a hotel while men watched, leading to her trauma and self-doubt, with no charges filed against the perpetrators.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
2 days ago

Psychology suggests men who are deeply unhappy in life but hide it well aren't being strong - they're running a performance that costs them every real connection they have, and the people closest to them almost never see it coming - Silicon Canals

Men often mask their depression with busyness and distraction, making it difficult to recognize their true emotional state.
#looksmaxxing
Social media marketing
fromBustle
3 days ago

The Men Optimizing Their Faces - And Judging Yours

Looksmaxxing promotes extreme body image ideals, leading to toxic behaviors and attitudes towards self-worth and attraction.
Social media marketing
fromBustle
3 days ago

The Men Optimizing Their Faces - And Judging Yours

Looksmaxxing promotes extreme body image ideals, leading to toxic behaviors and attitudes towards self-worth and attraction.
#tradwife
Women in technology
fromFuturism
6 days ago

Psychologists Found Something Horrible About the Kind of Men Seeking Trad Wives

The tradwife movement's appeal to men is linked to hostile sexism and heightened religiosity, challenging initial assumptions about traditional values.
Women in technology
fromScary Mommy
2 weeks ago

Study Finds Men Who Want #TradWives Also Have High Levels Of "Hostile Sexism"

The #tradwife movement is supported by men with hostile sexism, who view women negatively and expect traditional homemaking roles.
Women in technology
fromFuturism
6 days ago

Psychologists Found Something Horrible About the Kind of Men Seeking Trad Wives

The tradwife movement's appeal to men is linked to hostile sexism and heightened religiosity, challenging initial assumptions about traditional values.
Women in technology
fromScary Mommy
2 weeks ago

Study Finds Men Who Want #TradWives Also Have High Levels Of "Hostile Sexism"

The #tradwife movement is supported by men with hostile sexism, who view women negatively and expect traditional homemaking roles.
Relationships
fromSlate Magazine
1 week ago

There's an Unfortunate Pattern to the Women I Sleep With. I'm Becoming "That Guy."

Insecurity about dating younger women can stem from societal judgment and personal feelings of inadequacy.
#masculinity
fromQueerty
2 weeks ago
LGBT

Limp d*cks, "leak outs" & rage letters to dad: Inside the alpha male boot camp to "unf*ck" straight men - Queerty

Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

There is a specific kind of masculinity that comes not from dominance but from integrity, calmness, and emotional steadiness - they make others feel safe - Silicon Canals

True strength in masculinity is calm, steady, and emotionally safe, contrasting with loud, dominant behaviors often mistaken for confidence.
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago
Mental health

Psychology says men raised in the 1960s and 70s weren't just taught to be strong - they were taught that strength meant carrying everything alone, and that single belief created a generation who confused endurance with emotional health - Silicon Canals

Men of previous generations were taught to handle stress alone, leading to emotional suppression and difficulties in expressing feelings.
LGBT
fromQueerty
2 weeks ago

Limp d*cks, "leak outs" & rage letters to dad: Inside the alpha male boot camp to "unf*ck" straight men - Queerty

Young straight men are struggling with dating, jobs, and education, often turning to misleading programs promising to enhance their masculinity.
Right-wing politics
fromThe New Yorker
2 weeks ago

The Camps Promising to Turn You-or Your Son-Into an Alpha Male

Nick Adams promotes a vision of masculinity that appeals to young men, emphasizing traditional male roles and rejecting notions of toxic masculinity.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

There is a specific kind of masculinity that comes not from dominance but from integrity, calmness, and emotional steadiness - they make others feel safe - Silicon Canals

True strength in masculinity is calm, steady, and emotionally safe, contrasting with loud, dominant behaviors often mistaken for confidence.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
3 weeks ago

Psychology says men raised in the 1960s and 70s weren't just taught to be strong - they were taught that strength meant carrying everything alone, and that single belief created a generation who confused endurance with emotional health - Silicon Canals

Men of previous generations were taught to handle stress alone, leading to emotional suppression and difficulties in expressing feelings.
OMG science
fromNature
2 weeks ago

Daily briefing: Are boys really in crisis? What the science says

Concerns about boys should be viewed in the broader context of all young people.
Education
fromNature
2 weeks ago

Are boys really in crisis? What the science says in the age of the manosphere

Boys aged 12-16 express frustrations about masculinity, emotional support, and the lack of real-world spaces post-COVID-19.
#body-image
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Men and Body Image: The Hidden Struggle

Many men experience body image issues silently due to cultural expectations and stigma, leading to dissatisfaction and unhealthy behaviors.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

There is a particular loneliness in being a man whose body never matched the archetype he was taught to aspire to. Not because anyone was cruel about it, but because the world built its furniture, its expectations, and its respect around a size he would never reach. - Silicon Canals

Body image issues in men stem from societal expectations and architectural norms, leading to a profound, often unacknowledged loneliness.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
4 days ago

Men and Body Image: The Hidden Struggle

Many men experience body image issues silently due to cultural expectations and stigma, leading to dissatisfaction and unhealthy behaviors.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 week ago

There is a particular loneliness in being a man whose body never matched the archetype he was taught to aspire to. Not because anyone was cruel about it, but because the world built its furniture, its expectations, and its respect around a size he would never reach. - Silicon Canals

Body image issues in men stem from societal expectations and architectural norms, leading to a profound, often unacknowledged loneliness.
Books
fromThe New Yorker
1 week ago

Briefly Noted Book Reviews

The novels explore complex themes of intimacy, loss, and coping mechanisms in relationships between young women and older figures.
#mens-mental-health
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

The Impact of Social Expectations on Men's Depression

Depression in men often manifests as disconnection and shame, influenced by internalized masculinity ideals, and can be addressed through therapy.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

The Impact of Social Expectations on Men's Depression

Depression in men often manifests as disconnection and shame, influenced by internalized masculinity ideals, and can be addressed through therapy.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

From 'Grumpy Old Man' to 'Irritable Male Syndrome'

Irritability in men often signals emotional distress rather than a clinical diagnosis, reflecting cultural norms around acceptable emotional expression.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
1 week ago

Why Today's Young Men Seem Trapped

Young men face a crisis of identity, struggling with anxiety, depression, and confusion about manhood due to societal pressures and lack of personal power.
fromQueerty
3 weeks ago

Who are the "hybrid boys" & why are they getting bodied by Gay Twitter? - Queerty

Hybrid training, which draws on various workouts from cardio to lifting, is gaining traction thanks to competitions like Hyrox created by Moritz Fürste.
Exercise
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

There's a generation of men who were taught that providing was the same as loving. And there's a generation of their children who spent years in therapy learning that those aren't the same thing, only to reach an age where they finally understand that for their fathers, inside the architecture they were given, it was. - Silicon Canals

Emotional estrangement between fathers and children stems from generational differences in expressing love and vulnerability.
Parenting
fromSilicon Canals
2 weeks ago

Children raised in the 1960s and 70s developed their resilience the same way muscle develops under resistance - not by being protected from the load but by being required to carry it, repeatedly, without assistance, until the carrying became the unremarkable default rather than the exceptional achievement - Silicon Canals

Independence and resilience were fostered in children of the '60s and '70s through unstructured play and learning from failure.
fromThe Atlantic
3 weeks ago

Homophobia Is Back. It's Different Now.

LaBeouf hasn't anchored a box-office hit in more than a decade, and little of his 2020s art-house work has drawn buzz. The most notable thing he's starred in lately was a clip of him on a podcaster's couch, hunched and diminished, talking about his fear of gay people.
LGBT
Books
fromThe Atlantic
2 weeks ago

How Long Can You Live Your Ideals?

Pat Calhoun chooses parenthood over radicalism, paralleling Elsa Haddish's struggle between her militant past and raising her daughter safely.
Film
fromQueerty
4 weeks ago

Manhood doc explores just how far guys will go for a bigger package - Queerty

Cosmetic penis enlargement procedures using hyaluronic acid injections are becoming increasingly mainstream, with practitioners like Dr. Bill Moore promoting techniques like PhalloFill as routine cosmetic treatments comparable to Botox.
Independent films
fromIndependent
1 month ago

Lorraine Courtney: Young men are turning to the 'manosphere' because masculinity has been unfairly scrutinised and criticised - they just want to belong

Society condemns girls extensively but applies different standards to boys, raising questions about gendered accountability and media scrutiny of young men.
Social media marketing
fromSlate Magazine
3 weeks ago

The Manosphere Has Started Ranking Its Top Chads. This Is-Stay With Me Here-Actually a Huge Improvement.

America is experiencing a cultural phenomenon centered around 'Chad' influencers promoting extreme measures for enhancing male attractiveness.
Mental health
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 weeks ago

The manosphere is dead and no one cares about Andrew Tate any more': the poet taking on toxic masculinity

Sam Browne uses performance poetry to address mental health and masculinity, aiming to change perceptions and support men in their struggles.
Parenting
fromPsychology Today
3 weeks ago

Dads Battle Flexibility Stigma and Outdated Media Portrayals

One in five fathers fear taking paternity leave due to job security concerns and societal perceptions.
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

The Cynical, Gullible American Man

Americans are also facing a bizarre epidemic of gullibility and cynicism-gullicism, if you need a portmanteau-that is drawing people into a world of conspiracism and falsehoods, one where facts are drowned out by a cacophony of extremely loud and wrong voices. Reliable information is both more available and harder to find than ever.
Public health
Women
fromEsquire
1 month ago

Whoa, Gen Z Guys, Are You Okay?

A global survey reveals 52% of respondents believe gender equality efforts have gone far enough, with support increasing 10% in seven years, particularly among Gen Z males who favor traditional gender roles.
Social media marketing
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Surely if you rule the manosphere, you can be your own boss? These influencers aren't even that | Elle Hunt

Influencer careers promise freedom and wealth but often deliver banal, soul-destroying work that traps creators as effectively as traditional employment.
Fashion & style
fromEsquire
1 month ago

A Portrait of Today's Man And His Wardrobe

Pal Zileri's Spring-Summer 2026 collection reimagines men's fashion through interchangeable, deconstructed pieces that blur formal and informal boundaries, celebrating Italian Casual as modern everyday elegance.
fromScary Mommy
1 month ago

Boy Mom, Girl Mom, One-And-Done Mom: When Did Parenting Get So Niche?

Very accomplished women were leading with it everywhere: on Instagram, sure, but also in professional bios and embroidered sweatshirts. Founders and bestselling authors were introducing themselves first not by what they had built or accomplished, but by who they had produced.
Parenting
Right-wing politics
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

There is no shame in being vain': the relentless rise of impossible male beauty standards

Male political and cultural figures increasingly perform militaristic authority through carefully curated facial presentation and appearance, while men's faces face unprecedented public scrutiny previously reserved for women.
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

The Manconomy Has a Body Image Problem Nobody Is Naming

Eating disorders in men are increasing through fitness optimization and looksmaxxing culture, with warning signs disguised as discipline rather than recognized as disordered eating patterns.
Women in technology
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

The Guardian view on gen Z: young men hold startling views about women inequality may be to blame | Editorial

A global survey reveals concerning attitudes among Gen Z men toward women's autonomy, with significant percentages believing women should obey husbands, avoid initiating sex, and defer to male decision-making authority.
Books
fromInsideHook
1 month ago

What to Read Right Now, According to Cool Men

Men discuss fiction books they recommend others read, including Pulitzer Prize winners, memoirs, and fantasy novels to combat reading disengagement.
Digital life
fromBuzzFeed
2 months ago

People Are Pointing Out The Parts Of American Culture That Are Changing Before Our Eyes

Widespread convenience technologies let people avoid leaving home, reducing everyday face-to-face interaction and increasing social isolation, division, and hostility.
US politics
fromAbove the Law
2 months ago

A Sad, Pathetic Little Man - Above the Law

Trump demands public praise from Cabinet members, exposing insecurity and creating public embarrassment for him and those who flatter him.
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

How Brawn and Engineering-Not Brains-Led to Human Domination

I'm always looking for books that challenge the status quo, and when I learned about Roland Ennos' new book The Powerful Primate: How Controlling Energy Enabled Us to Build Civilization, I couldn't wait to get my eyes on it, and I'm thrilled I did. In this landmark book, Ennos offers "a compelling argument that flips the traditional view of humanity on its head."
Science
fromenglish.elpais.com
2 months ago

Hammers to the face and amphetamines: hypermasculine looksmaxxing invades the internet

Two years ago, we were asking ourselves here at EL PAIS if the normal man would make a comeback meaning, whether we weren't seeing the return to glory of the guy lacking in chiseled abs, generous biceps and a square jaw, represented in today's cinema by Hovik Keuchkerian and Josh O'Connor and, classically, by legends like Humphrey Bogart and Marcello Mastroianni.
Social justice
UK news
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

Not bowled over by male sports chat | Brief letters

Frustration with male sporting analogies; football-terrace chants mock nationality; calls for secular alternatives to blessings and exclamations; questions about reallocating extra exercise minutes.
Media industry
fromVulture
2 months ago

Watching Straight Men Watch Heated Rivalry

Reaction videos create shared emotional catharsis, enabling viewers to celebrate queer intimacy and human connection amid prevailing conservative cultural sentiment.
Careers
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

Would anyone name their son Jeffrey in 2026?

Men named Jeffrey face choosing 'Jeffrey' or 'Jeff' because notorious namesakes can affect social and professional impressions.
#gen-z-attitudes
Women in technology
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

New Global Study Shows One-Third Of Young Men Believe Wives Should Be Submissive

Gen Z men hold more traditionally conservative views on marriage and gender roles than older generations, with 31% believing wives should obey husbands and 33% believing husbands should have final decision-making authority.
Women in technology
fromInsideHook
1 month ago

Gen Z Men Want to Be "Obeyed" By Women

Gen Z men show more regressive attitudes toward gender equality than older generations, with over 30% believing women should obey husbands and 60% feeling burdened by supporting gender equality efforts.
Women in technology
fromBuzzFeed
1 month ago

New Global Study Shows One-Third Of Young Men Believe Wives Should Be Submissive

Gen Z men hold more traditionally conservative views on marriage and gender roles than older generations, with 31% believing wives should obey husbands and 33% believing husbands should have final decision-making authority.
Women in technology
fromInsideHook
1 month ago

Gen Z Men Want to Be "Obeyed" By Women

Gen Z men show more regressive attitudes toward gender equality than older generations, with over 30% believing women should obey husbands and 60% feeling burdened by supporting gender equality efforts.
fromUnHerd
1 month ago

The teenage-boy proving ground

The teenaged boy was the victim of what local news sources called a "social-media challenge" or "TikTok stunt" gone awry. He'd been with a group of friends who were filming the exploit, and who fled the scene without calling for help for fear of getting arrested - though, naturally, they also immediately posted video of the accident to social media.
New York City
LGBT
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

In Defense of Effeminate Gay Boys

Gender nonconformity in boys is a natural male variation, not an indicator of being female, and conflating the two undermines acceptance of diverse expressions of masculinity.
Public health
fromEurasia Review
2 months ago

'Masculinity Crisis': Influencers On Social Media Promote Low Testosterone To Young Men

Influencer content on Instagram and TikTok normalizes unnecessary testosterone testing and therapy for healthy young men by promoting unproven benefits and downplaying serious medical risks.
US politics
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

On a street in Minneapolis, two versions of masculinity clashed. One anchored in fear, the other in care

Deep empathy combined with courage defines a healthier masculinity than the empathy-denying, macho MAGA vision.
Women in technology
fromwww.dw.com
1 month ago

One in three Gen Z men want obedient women

Generation Z men hold the most traditional gender views of any age group, with 31% believing wives should always obey husbands, compared to 13% of Baby boomer men.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

I'm 66 and I finally understand why my father never talked about his feelings - it wasn't stoicism or emotional unavailability, it was that his generation was handed a definition of strength that made needing anyone feel like personal failure - Silicon Canals

Men of previous generations were taught that emotional expression and seeking help constituted weakness, leading them to silently endure hardship and pass this harmful rulebook to their sons.
fromEurekAlert!
2 months ago

'Masculinity crisis': Influencers on social media promote low testosterone to young men, study finds

Young men are being encouraged to undergo testosterone testing and start hormone therapy through Instagram and TikTok content that promotes unproven health claims while downplaying medical risks, a new international study has found. The study was done at the University of Sydney's Faculty of Medicine and Health, and led by Emma Grundtvig Gram, a visiting PhD student from the University of Copenhagen.
Relationships
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

Grown-Ass Men Reveal The Moment They Knew They Were A 'Manchild'

A father's failure to verify his son's event schedule resulted in missing the competition, revealing a pattern of delegating parental responsibilities and prioritizing being liked over being a responsible adult.
Books
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

Literature Has a Stay-at-Home-Dad Problem

Stay-at-home fathers are consistently portrayed as incompetent buffoons in literature, rarely depicted as skilled, engaged parents despite their growing real-world presence.
fromQueerty
1 month ago

Are these really the 'Top 3 gayest names' for boys? - Queerty

Are there "gay names"? We would say there aren't, but that hasn't stopped internet speculation on the matter. One gay man went viral last week with his suggestion of the 'Top 3 Gayest Names'. Hunter Cassidy says he's an expert in the field, but we think that expertise comes mainly from the fact that he's worked in a gay bar and presumably met lots of gay men.
LGBT
Public health
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

Manosphere' influencers pushing testosterone tests are convincing healthy young men there is something wrong with them, study finds

Influencers and wellness companies promote routine testosterone screening to young men, medicalising normal variations and driving profit without clear clinical benefit.
Psychology
fromHuffPost
1 month ago

Men Are More Likely To Exhibit This 1 Behavior When Other Men Are Creepy. The Reason Is Telling.

Men intervene less frequently than women in uncomfortable social situations due to masculine norms emphasizing dominance, fear of peer judgment, and confusion about acceptable behavior.
#toxic-masculinity
fromNature
2 months ago
Psychology

Can 'toxic masculinity' be measured? Scientists try to quantify controversial term

fromNature
2 months ago
Psychology

Can 'toxic masculinity' be measured? Scientists try to quantify controversial term

Women in technology
fromwww.theguardian.com
1 month ago

Gen Z men twice as likely as baby boomers to believe wives should obey husbands

Generation Z men hold more traditional gender role views than older generations, with nearly a third believing wives should obey husbands and a third wanting final decision-making authority.
Books
fromThe Atlantic
1 month ago

Enough With the Bros

The 'bro' suffix has become a lazy rhetorical device that transforms personal annoyances into social archetypes, preventing genuine critical analysis of why certain behaviors or interests actually warrant criticism.
Mental health
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

7 things men in their 40s quietly stop tolerating that aren't about becoming bitter-they're about finally knowing the difference between what they owe people and what they've been giving away for free - Silicon Canals

Around age forty, people recognize the importance of setting boundaries by distinguishing genuine obligations from endless requests, learning to say no to protect their own priorities and survival.
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