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NYC music
fromTime Out New York
in 3 hours

This popular massive street festival is coming back to NYC!

Fifth Avenue hosts the Museum Mile Festival, offering free museum access and live performances on June 9 from 6pm to 9pm.
fromTasting Table
1 day ago

6 Benefits Beer Brings To Your Garden - Tasting Table

A beer trap is another brilliant way to protect your plants. It may not completely rid your garden of these pests, but it does have benefits. For one, the beer trap traps and drowns slugs. The other is that, in the process, you are enticing them away from crops you want to protect.
Beer
Germany news
fromApartment Therapy
4 days ago

My German Friend Told Me About "Stammstich," and It Changed My Life

Stammtisch is a German tradition of informal gatherings that strengthens friendships without the need for RSVPs or excuses for absence.
Exercise
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 days ago

Socialising, work, exercise: what makes a good day and is there a formula' for making it better?

Socializing for 30 minutes to two hours correlates with people reporting a good day, while excessive housework or TV does not.
Running
fromiRunFar
5 days ago

Building Community the Old Fashioned Way

Building relationships through shared training experiences enhances the running community.
#friendship
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

The person who always offers to drive, always picks the restaurant, always plans the trip is rarely the controlling one in the group. They're the one who learned early that if they didn't organize the connection, the connection simply wouldn't happen. - Silicon Canals

The organizer in a friend group often acts out of learned necessity to maintain connections, not from a desire for control or leadership.
fromLos Angeles Times
3 weeks ago
Online Community Development

L.A. Times Concierge: 'It's hard to make friends as an adult in L.A. What are some groups I can join?'

Building adult friendships can be challenging, but social clubs and community spaces in L.A. offer opportunities for connection and shared interests.
Psychology
fromSilicon Canals
3 days ago

The person who always offers to drive, always picks the restaurant, always plans the trip is rarely the controlling one in the group. They're the one who learned early that if they didn't organize the connection, the connection simply wouldn't happen. - Silicon Canals

The organizer in a friend group often acts out of learned necessity to maintain connections, not from a desire for control or leadership.
Online Community Development
fromLos Angeles Times
3 weeks ago

L.A. Times Concierge: 'It's hard to make friends as an adult in L.A. What are some groups I can join?'

Building adult friendships can be challenging, but social clubs and community spaces in L.A. offer opportunities for connection and shared interests.
Travel
fromTravel + Leisure
3 days ago

These Are the 20 Best Cities for 'Noctourism' in the U.S.

New Orleans is the top U.S. destination for noctourism, offering a vibrant array of nighttime experiences and activities.
Arts
fromOregon ArtsWatch * Arts & Culture News
4 days ago

Salem Paper Arts Fair celebrates love of all things paper, followed by a 'Bridgerton' ball * Oregon ArtsWatch

The first annual Salem Paper Arts Fair celebrates paper arts and literature on April 18, featuring independent artists and a Booklover's Ball.
fromThesanjoseblog
5 days ago

Downtown San Jose Welcomes Foodies Fandom Night Market to Plaza de Cesar Chavez

Local vendors will fill the space with global street eats, tempting desserts, artisan booths, and unique activations that promise something for every palate.
Madrid food
SF food
fromFuncheap
5 days ago

Best Sunday Vibes at the San Jose Flea Market

The event features free live music, food trucks, and a variety of beers, welcoming all ages with specific alcohol purchase restrictions.
Philosophy
fromApaonline
1 week ago

Promoting Civic Friendship: The Transformative Power of Public Spaces

The neighborhood in Lisbon faces challenges due to population growth, infrastructure strain, and a need for community-driven solutions like SAAL.
Digital life
fromRoughMaps
5 days ago

Why Digital Nomads Are Wearing Out Their Welcome - RoughMaps

Remote workers have significantly impacted local housing markets, leading to increased rents and displacement in cities like Lisbon and Mexico City.
London
fromTime Out London
6 days ago

Orchestral music on a council estate and reindeer skull art are this weekend's best free things to do in London

April 10-12 offers a variety of free activities in London, including music, art, and performances for budget-conscious residents.
San Francisco
fromFuncheap
6 days ago

SF Commerce & Artisan Assembly w/ Local Makers (Union Square)

The San Francisco Commerce & Artisan Assembly is a free three-day event showcasing local makers and artists in Union Square Park.
Beer
fromTasting Table
2 days ago

8 Unwritten Rules To Know Before Visiting A Brewery - Tasting Table

Understanding brewery etiquette enhances the experience and prevents faux pas during visits.
fromIndependent
1 week ago

The Swedish social worker documenting Dublin pub culture: 'I usually have a Guinness in one hand and a camera in the other - and I talk to people'

Carina Hedlund has visited Ireland over 30 times since 2011, capturing the warmth of the people she meets in the capital's pubs with her camera.
Berlin
SF music
from48 hills
2 days ago

One decade in, the Back Room still holds space for intimate musical encounters - 48 hills

The Back Room in Berkeley celebrates its 10th anniversary, maintaining its intimate atmosphere for live music.
Portland food
fromThesanjoseblog
4 days ago

San Jose Day Returns with Creative Events Across the City

San Jose Day celebration will showcase local art, music, fashion, and culture from April 12, featuring a centerpiece festival and various community events.
Psychology
fromPsychology Today
3 days ago

What Is Soft Socializing?

Soft socializing fosters low-pressure connections through shared activities, enhancing relationships over time without the need for intense conversations.
Arts
fromBOOOOOOOM!
6 days ago

Two Free Events to Check out This Weekend at Capture

Michelle Sound will lead a talk and tour of her exhibition at Ceremonial / Art, focusing on her recent practice and commissioned project.
fromIndependent
1 week ago

Share the load and the cost: Why more parents are having joint birthday parties for kids

Birthday parties are supposed to be fun, and they are, but they can also be hard work, not to mention very costly for parents.
Parenting
Beer
fromFood & Beverage Magazine
2 days ago

Farm Bar Events: New Rooftop Venue in Ravenswood

Farm Bar Events in Ravenswood offers a rooftop venue for personalized gatherings, emphasizing sustainability and community-driven experiences.
Portland food
fromPortland Mercury
5 days ago

The Best Bang for Your Buck Events in Portland This Weekend: Apr 10-12, 2026 - Portland Mercury

Weekend events in the US include Alley Sweeper, The Ladds 500, Magnolia Festival, and Cherry Blossom Bazaar.
#networking
fromFast Company
2 weeks ago
Careers

3 ways to take the 'work' out of networking

Make it easy for your network to help you by reclaiming control of your job search.
fromApaonline
2 months ago
Philosophy

Why We Should Stop "Networking": On the Intrinsic Value of Connection

Networking framed by productivity, efficiency, and profit undermines meaningful relationships and is ethically problematic when pursued solely for concealed personal gain.
fromWarpweftandway
2 weeks ago

Upcoming Collaborative Learning Events

The first event is a roundtable on "Zhuangzi: Fate, Desires, Transformation" on April 6th at 9:00am Beijing time.
Philosophy
Beer
fromwww.nytimes.com
1 month ago

A Dublin Pub-Crawl, but Hold the Booze

Alcohol-free options are increasingly popular in Irish pubs as drinking habits shift towards moderation and health consciousness.
Portland
fromPortland Monthly
3 weeks ago

How Tabor Dance Became a Portland Party Staple

Dancing at Mount Tabor during the pandemic fostered community, connection, and joy among participants seeking relief from isolation.
fromYoga Journal
3 weeks ago

WTF Is a Wellness Festival? An Antidote to Loneliness, Apparently.

A true wellness gathering is something far more ancient and far more urgent: it's any intentional space where humans are invited to arrive whole, body, mind, spirit, and leave more alive than when they walked in. That's it. That's the whole definition.
Yoga
Relationships
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

The Brief Life of Travel Friendships

Travel friendships are psychologically real relationships that form in liminal spaces where normal social roles temporarily dissolve, enabling rapid intimacy through shared novel experiences and vulnerability.
Women
fromwww.amny.com
4 weeks ago

More than just news: Schneps Media brings people together through great events | amNewYork

Schneps Media hosts eight annual Power Women events and 25+ professional awards across New York City, Long Island, the Hamptons, and Palm Beach to recognize and celebrate female business leaders and community professionals.
London food
fromwww.theguardian.com
3 weeks ago

The sun may be shining but beware eating alfresco it can turn into an absolute indignity

Alfresco eating can be challenging and embarrassing, especially without proper seating and utensils.
fromPsychology Today
4 weeks ago

Music in Community Offers Light in Dark Times

In frightening times, it makes a huge difference not to feel alone. Creating art with others in community enhances agency and strengthens self. Creativity requires an open heart; love enhances hope and diminishes fear.
Music
Relationships
fromBustle
4 weeks ago

The Case for Doing Absolutely Nothing at Girls' Night (And Making It the Best One Yet)

Unstructured social gatherings with close friends create deeper connections and more memorable moments than elaborately planned events.
Dining
fromtablehopper
1 month ago

This week's tablehopper: hobnobbing. (free)

Chef René Redzepi of Noma faces serious allegations of physical and mental abuse toward staff, documented by former employees and reported by The New York Times, threatening the restaurant's prestigious reputation and Los Angeles residency.
SF music
fromFuncheap
4 weeks ago

Golden Gate Park "Singing in the Park" Community Party (SF)

A community singing event in San Francisco offers networking, music lessons, group singing, and optional social gathering with refreshments.
#live-music-events
Relationships
fromLos Angeles Times
1 month ago

Tell us about the greatest, most neighborly neighbor you've ever had

Neighbor interactions have declined significantly across all age groups from 2017 to 2023, yet good neighbors provide invaluable support and friendship for those without nearby family.
fromFuncheap
1 month ago

The Bay Agenda: Keepers of the Steps Preserving Bay Area Irish Culture

Keepers of the Steps, the living archive and cultural program at the United Irish Cultural Center dedicated to preserving generations of Bay Area Irish dancers, teachers, and families. Through stories, images, and lived experience, we'll reflect on how dance carries lineage, identity, and community forward.
SF music
LA real estate
fromLos Angeles Times
24 years ago

It Was a Hangout for His 'Friends'

Matthew Perry sold his Hollywood Hills home for approximately $839,000, while also purchasing a Beverly Hills property for $3.2 million, and Devon Sawa bought a renovated Spanish-style Hollywood Hills home in the low-$900,000 range.
fromPortland Monthly
1 month ago

Four Portlanders Explain Why Gathering Matters in 2026

I'm a relationship therapist because I really struggled in relationships. I didn't understand that vulnerability was a prerequisite for bonding. It was such a relieving awakening to realize that's where I would be loved the most: putting [my] worst foot forward. I think the kids call it full goblin mode. That really is it.
Public health
Startup companies
fromFast Company
1 month ago

3 affordable networking options that work better than LinkedIn

Solopreneurs can build effective networks through unconventional strategies like volunteering at industry events, leveraging unexpected social spaces, and proactively inserting themselves into opportunities rather than waiting for formal invitations.
London music
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

The pub that changed me: While drinking and singing there I met my partner'

Weekly pop-choir rehearsals and post-rehearsal pub singalongs generated close friendships, regular social outings, and became a weekly highlight.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

The pub that changed me: We celebrated Christmas in July and suddenly every night was Saturday night'

We gravitated towards the Blue Ball as teenagers, not because they served underage drinkers. They didn't. And we could only afford to drink lime and soda anyway. No, we loved this place because it had (drumroll) two bars. So we were not only cool enough to go down the pub (never to the pub, strictly down the pub or, better still, down the Blue), but we even had our own bar.
Food & drink
Mental health
fromPsychology Today
1 month ago

We've Lost the Spaces That Foster Friendship

Loneliness stems from disappearing social infrastructure like third places rather than individual failure, requiring systemic solutions beyond personal effort.
fromArchDaily
2 months ago

The Kitchen as a Social Space: Everyday Rituals and the Making of Place

Can architecture be built from food? Between the fire that warms, the smells that spread, and the bodies that gather around the table, the apparent banality of cooking and eating reveals itself as a choreographed dance of spatial appropriation and belonging. These gestures organize routines, produce bonds, and transform the built environment into lived place. The kitchen- domestic, communal, or urban -thus ceases to be merely a functional space and affirms itself as a territory of encounter.
Design
fromSilicon Canals
2 months ago

If you can discuss these 7 topics comfortably at dinner parties, you're more cultured than you think - Silicon Canals

Last month, I found myself at a friend's dinner table, surrounded by strangers. What started as polite small talk about the weather quickly evolved into a fascinating discussion about urban development, the role of art in society, and how different countries approach healthcare. Three hours flew by. Walking home that night, I realized something. The people who seemed most at ease weren't necessarily the ones with the most degrees or the fanciest job titles.
Miscellaneous
Travel
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

I always find the best local recommendations when I travel solo. My strategy involves dating apps and clever prompts.

Use dating-app matches as local insiders to crowdsource personalized recommendations before solo trips.
fromwww.theguardian.com
2 months ago

The pub that changed me: I bonded with a new group of friends there and it led to my dream job'

Early in my career, I was going through a difficult chapter in work and life. Having moved down to London from Glasgow, I felt socially untethered, unsure of where I belonged. I yearned to feel part of a gang like I'd done back home, but I had no clue about how to find one. A bruising experience of redundancy hadn't helped matters.
London
London music
fromwww.bbc.com
2 months ago

'Nightlife culture isn't dying but it is evolving'

Rising costs, changing social habits, and community pressure are driving rapid nightclub closures, threatening the survival of major UK clubs by 2030.
fromFortune Well
2 months ago

Feeling stressed? Make time to share a meal with others | Fortune Well

However, new research suggests that sharing a meal with those we care about, like family or colleagues, may lower our stress levels, improve our workday, and help us make healthier food choices. In a report released this week, the American Heart Association (AHA), which surveyed 1,000 U.S. adults about their dining habits, found that almost all parents (91%) say their family is less stressed when they share meals together.
Public health
#craft-beer
Startup companies
fromFast Company
2 months ago

Community is the smartest investment a solopreneur can make

Building intentional communities is essential infrastructure for solopreneurs to sustain creativity, provide reality checks, and amplify professional impact.
Relationships
fromSilicon Canals
1 month ago

9 things Irish-American families did every Sunday in the 1970s and 80s that cost nothing and built the kind of loyalty that modern family life struggles to replicate - Silicon Canals

Regular shared family rituals and community gatherings create lasting bonds and accountability that modern scattered schedules struggle to replicate.
Parenting
fromScary Mommy
2 months ago

We Have To Get Back To Letting Friends Just Stop By (Yes, Even If Our House Is Messy)

An unexpected drop-in exposed a messy home, triggering embarrassment and transforming a longtime love of hosting into fear of unannounced visitors.
Arts
fromwww.berkeleyside.org
2 months ago

Around Berkeley: Tiny art show, herb walk, K-pop party

Berkeley hosts a series of cultural and educational events Jan. 15–17, including workshops, concerts, a film screening, art exhibits, talks, and a guided hike.
SF music
fromwww.7x7.com
1 month ago

22 Fun Things to Do This Week (3.02.26)

Spring brings new cultural events including dance performances, garden openings, women's celebrations, food experiences, and interactive exhibits across the Bay Area.
fromwww.npr.org
2 months ago

Want to be part of a village? You might need to get out of your comfort zone

People say it takes a village to do difficult things: raise a child, sustain a community, build a barn. But we don't often talk a lot about what it takes to be a villager. What does it mean to not just be in a community, but to help create one? Priya Parker, author of The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters, says the key is to put yourself out there, even if it's scary.
Relationships
Arts
fromApartment Therapy
2 years ago

64 Ways to Have the Most Fun Staying In with Your Friends

Host cozy at-home craft nights with friends featuring simple DIY projects like bracelet making, candle pouring, crochet, painting, cake decorating, swaps, and mood boards.
fromPsychology Today
2 months ago

Finding Social Connection in a New Community

"I feel like it was easier to connect with other transplants," she said. "Everyone seemed to revolve around hobby-based communities."
Relationships
Relationships
fromHuffPost
2 months ago

These Tiny Rituals Are Surprisingly Easy To Implement - And They Can Save Your Friendships

Friendship rituals create consistent practices that strengthen bonds, foster vulnerability, and maintain connections during busy or changing life seasons.
Arts
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

After I graduated from college, I realized I needed a 'third place' to stay sane and social. A new hobby helped me find it.

Joining ballet provided a social 'third place,' led to community, personal growth, and long-term commitment.
Relationships
fromBusiness Insider
2 months ago

I hosted a dinner party every Saturday in 2025. My husband and I made new friends, ate good food, and got the kids to bed on time.

Hosting weekly Saturday dinners created a reliable social anchor that reduced isolation and rebuilt adult connections despite parenting logistics and limited space.
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